I feel sad that school starting soon and that I don’t have a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I just feel super lonely. About 2 weeks ago I saw the guy I was on and off with for over a year at the club with another girl holding her hand etc… he told me that he didn’t want to see me cuz it would be too hard for him because he’s leaving to school and vacation but the whole time he was just with another girl and talking to me. This broke my heart because it makes me feel like there something wrong with me. I just feel not lovable and I can’t find anyone that I’d see myself dating. I just get scared that I’m going to be alone forever. I’m 20 and i just confused I don’t want to start school again and I just feel stuck and don’t know what to do.

[Anonymous]

Is it possible that this desperation is pushing men away? Like it’s making you look or act a certain way that’s Ed if odd these bovines to men? I don’t see why you’re in a hurry to meet someone. Is there a time frame or something for you as far as marriage, kids, etc? Maybe you don’t want that I don’t know. Just asking.

[Asker]

I just feel like I’m getting old and would want to find a good guy you know or have experiences with other men but there is just no one around who even interests me and that’s what makes it hard to move on from the ones that treat me like shit

[Opinion Owner]

Experience in what way? Trust me you don’t want to have experience sexually w other men really when it comes to meeting a man who wants something serious w you.

[Asker]

Yeah I didn’t mean sexual But just like have other men come up to me and me actually be interested

[Opinion Owner]

I see. So do you think you could improve your chances by improving yourself in some way? Are there some men who approach you or none at all?

[Asker]

Yeah there are but I’m picky I don't know it just bothers me that I can’t be with the guy that I want and he played me it makes me sad

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. But why do you think you couldn’t be a him? Like if you really assessed yourself do you think your top notch what he’s looking for?

[Asker]

He’s a lair and plays games so I don’t know what he’s looking for but he lied to me and I caught him in his lie and then he got mad at me that he was caught and now we don’t talk and I think he’s gross but it just sad that it had to turn out that way

[Opinion Owner]

So move on. Not that hard.

[Asker]

It is hard :( cuz I just feel like I wasn’t good enough

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. So now what? There will be other times when things like this happen. You need to find a way to keep moving. Maybe you can improve on something’s to get what you want.

[Asker]

I know your right but I just keep comparing I unfollowed him do u think that was stupid?

[Opinion Owner]

Do I think what was stupid? Unfollowing him?

[Asker]

Yeah

[Opinion Owner]

No I don’t. I think that’s part of the process of helping yourself to move on.

[Luckycharms12]

Why would having boyfriend make a difference or not

[Asker]

So I can be with someone for the winter so lonely in the winter

[Luckycharms12]

Get a hobby don't want be with someone for the sake of it

[Asker]

Ur right

[gorydetails]

Your focus should be on getting good grades and making lifelong friendships.

[moneymagnet24]

Hehe you're cute..