I feel like I’m never going to get a boyfriend :(?

[Anonymous]

I’m 21 and I haven’t had a boyfriend in like 2 years. I had a weird thing with a guy for about a year and a half but he just broke my heart and put me through pain the whole time so I don’t consider it a relationship really. I’m in university and I have a dating app but it’s so hard for me to find someone I’m interested in. I feel like I’m gonna be alone forever and it’s hard because I feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend and I don’t. My last weird relationship thing really broke my heart and I still think about him sometimes but not that I care I think I just miss having someone to care about and he was the last person I really cared about. I’m just scared that I’m never gonna find anyone:( do you think I’ll be alone forever and how do I put myself out there stop focusing on finding boyfriend so bad because it’s really one of the only things I want. I just want to experience real love. Can it be that I have a bad personality? And can’t get along with anyone

[ClassicDropout]

My honest advice is to just ditch the dating app. It's killing your mental health and confidence. I used to be so miserable when I tried to get matches on Tinder. I thought I was the most undesirable person of all time until I deleted it and realized people give me way more attention In person. I just never noticed how snobby, stuck-up, judgmental, and out-of-touch people were on dating apps.

[Asker]

Really? Because I went on a double date with this guy i met on a dating app and it was fun. But even before the date he barely texted me and after too. Like even if I was interested how am I supposed to get to know him if he doesn’t reply or ask to hang if he doesn’t answer. It just makes me feel like I’m the problem I don't know

[Anonymous]

Odds are you won't. Odds are you'll have many more opportunities. But I'm not going to tell you it's not possible you'll be single forever. I mean I'm almost 50 and I've always been single. But I've also had my chances. The best advice I can glesn from my years is. Be selective. And remember love is not perfect because people ate not perfect. But know what you worthy of (be realistic about what you're worthy of to) and accept nothing less.

[Simslover92]

Hun you're only 21. You should be focusing on yourself and the university experience. You have plenty of time to get a boyfriend. I didn't get my first boyfriend until 31. Not saying it'll take you till you're 31 to find someone but he will come when you least expect it. For now, just try to focus on yourself and have fun! It'll happen when it's meant to happen.

[glennos89]

You won't be alone forever I can promise you that!

What type of guy are you interested in?

[zagor]

That's kind of weird. When I was in university the majority of people did not have a steady relationship.

[Danny_dan92]

You are young as fuck. Chill out

[Asker]

The first guy said that I might never find love

[Danny_dan92]

No. Relax

[seanscoopers]

Just be single enjoy your life

[Asker]

I just want to love someone I don't know

[seanscoopers]

Okay yourself

[seanscoopers]

Love yourself

[jahaims]

You need to mature

[Asker]

Why?