Do people find your personality attractive/appealing?

Question

Have you ever been told you have an attractive or appealing personality? What was your response? Do you know what others find attractive or appealing about your personality? Common traits that may make someone's personality seem appealing/attractive are: active listener calm/cool/collected/soothing confident engaging/outgoing emotional intelligence empathy/compassion fun-loving/adventurous spirit, genuine/sincere good manners good sense of humor humble kindness optimistic passion social/communication skills style supportive warm/loving nature

wolfcat87 · Accepted Answer

Ha ha ha, depends. I have a personality that people love or hate. Most people like my personality though.

Never been much of a people pleaser, blunt, too honest, not trying to win anyone over. Would rather be right than happy, and not humble at all. Definitely confident/arrogant and I earned it. That makes a lot of people rage. Have also been told that my shyness can make me appear aloof and snobby. A bit of a perfectionist and task master who expects the best from people and don't enable bad behavior or accept excuses. That really upsets people. I tell people don't come to me if you want someone to lie to you and sugar coat things. It's not happening. So, I get accused of being a psychopath who lacks empathy for refusing to lie, follow the crowd, or self deprecate. News flash, I'm not. My issue is too much empathy not too little.

That being said, once I open up I've been told I'm bubbly, giggly, friendly, too kind, too empathetic, make people feel like we've been friends for years in under an hour. Cute, adorable, endearing, a bit like a baby bunny. Cuddly, loving, attentive, a good listener. Chill or full on manic and hyper depending on the day. A bit childish, love to prank and goof off. Definitely love to disappear on little trips/adventures and try new things. Optimistic but also realistic. Self sacrificing when it comes to people I love and animals. Tons of passion. Love to help others if they are willing to do right and help themselves. I have manners, but many people don't these days. Same for style.

I've been called a saint and pure evil, so I'm just going to go with somewhere in the middle... like everyone. My personality is good enough for me to make excellent money from it. $80-$120 hr.

So, your list seems pretty accurate. The caveat being people don't like honest. They say they do but lie. Good people like honest, most people aren't that good and would choose a lie and a person who pretends to be worse than they are so they can feel less insecure. Won't be me though.

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

Difficult to say. In my experience even if someone likes your personality, it's always result of your physical appearance. I have the feel, if I looked ugly, even trying my best I wouldn't attract people with personality alone. Maybe there are some people who don't let influence their judgment of personality with looks but their rarity is on level of people who won 6 in Lotto.

OfMiceandMen · Accepted Answer

I find a lot of women that I are a client or work within an agency are somewhat attracted to me because I know my stuff regarding rare species and the work I do is very fulfilling and makes me happy. I had a few girls ask me out when I've given talks/speeches about helping a specific endangered or threatened wildlife species.

For instance, I was doing a mussel survey down on one of the rivers in southwestern Ontario and had my SCUBA equipment on and was identifying the mussel species I collected when a Department of Fisheries and Oceans came by to check on my permit. The female DFO officer came up afterwards and asked if I was staying in the nearby city while conducting the surveys and wanted to go for dinner.

I think the combination of my outgoing/positive personality and work I do, creates and opening for discussion.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

For the most part yes. I hate talking about myself, but I usually get complimented on my personality , I tend to not be very judgmental and treat people the way I like to be treated. I enjoy socializing with people , why I like this app for the most part

kylee2437 · Answer

Not in the the slightest, but one thing people learn about me is that I have a big heart

Lliam · Answer

Nobody has ever told me that, per se. But people like me.
Maybe because of my sense of humor, wit, and knowledge on a variety of topics. I am friendly, engaging, and listen to others. When I'm talking with someone, they are my center of attention. I ask questions. I talk with them, not at them.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

people need time to get to know me... if someone has the will to get over my autism walls and get to know me... they usually like me :D

HawkPerception · Answer

My friends definitely do. Even though I've been relatively broke most of my life and not been able to afford much, they always appreciate my easy going vibes and insight that I share with them. One thing I can say my friends see me as despite where I am in life financially is wise.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

I think a lot of people like my personality. Like I get told that I’m funny all the time. I even had a conversation with coworkers about a year ago and they were saying they love my vibe and they haven’t met anyone like me 😅

I seem to get that reaction from a lot of people.

MicahRaine · Answer

I believe so, but I can't be 100% sure.

People usually don't just come out and start complimenting me on my personality (it's only happened a few times), but I have noticed that I've never been turned down when I asked someone if they want to hang out or swap numbers (okay, I got turned down once in high school). Whenever I want to fill my schedule, all I gotta do is text/call someone or go out and start meeting strangers.

DopeTurtle · Answer

I’m a decent looking person but my personality tends to outshine my looks in the sense of attractiveness or appealing.

I’m laid back, easy going and very communicative with an open minded perspective towards most things in life. Even if things don’t go in a significant direction, I’m definitely a good time regardless

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Well miss dish tbh, a lot of peoole from all around the world finds my personality to be interesting and attractive and some say that it's unique or maybe very rare but at the same time i know that there are also a lot of people who doesn't like me, such as they are neutral and some hates me for sure and some cannot imagine me to be real and some doesn't want me to even exist!

worldscolide · Answer

Not really, I'm blunt, honest, and don't care who I hurt with my honesty. I use to be slippery, chose dishonesty over truth, and must not a nice guy. When I met my wife I changed that.

sawno · Answer

Generally yes, I am loved for my personality. But I am also myself which can create some controversy. I would not be surprised if some users on here dislike me because I use this platform as an outlet for my more outspoken takes.

ryanrhino · Answer

I have had at least 5 close friends since 1994, with 1 since 1989. That's definitely dating me, but I joke to some of them that our friendships could drink legally in the US and have "had" teenagers by now.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Nobody except people I've dated I think. It takes me time to come out of my shell so most people don't get to know the real me.
I often feel disliked though. So I don't know maybe people just don't like me

exitseven · Answer

I am an acquired taste I imagine. I am hard to know. I am trying to do better.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I know of at least two people that do for completely different reasons. But other then them I would assume so since I never really have any problems with anyone.

Apple1996 · Answer

Yes I've been told by multiple people (some of them strangers) that I have a nice energy/aura about me

Iron_Man · Answer

Well, of course I find it attractive a good personality but the first thing that gets your foot in the door is attraction for example, if I looked like the elephant man, would anybody ever talk to me?

SpeedAnswerDemon · Answer

yeah man, though sometimes I'm called a smartass. but when I was in grade 3, I was getting all the 8/9 year old BADDIES ong wait

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Those who understand my sense of humour usually do Dishy.

Julian7312 · Answer

I'm flattered when someone tells me that. And I try to learn on the way to be the best partner I can be for them.

Dnice1 · Answer

I've been told by many people I have a sweet personality ☺

DrPepper12 · Answer

A few women had said that about my being carefree and adventurous, sensitive and caring.

dragoblack · Answer

Yeas, i have an attractive personality, but not attractive physical looks. I am described physically by quote "very average/normal looking"

Staximus · Answer

Not usually, I'm pretty grumpy and abrasive

Emmytexrex · Answer

Yh they say because I have ancient wisdom lol that's why they gravitate towards me

LiamJHayden · Answer

I am a guy who gets approached by random people who are in need of assistance.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Yes they do weirdly when I act super bitchy and have a sarcastic sense of humor

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

Guys have told me I have a cute personality. I'm a really sweet, caring person. 😊

letmex-plain · Answer

Depends on the personality of the person judging me. Here is what I'm like, and it's for you to adjudicate.

ab2shifty · Answer

I’ve been told that and it confused the shit outta me 💀

Cheerfull009 · Answer

People say that I am handsome and nice guy, but I care less

Dongie · Answer

No one has ever said so.

NathanDavis · Answer

yes... that's at least 50% of the deal, lol

DJB72 · Answer

They say I do, then they get to know me...

jack1924 · Answer

All the time, especially older people and kids

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Yes they have but my weirdness out ways it I think

legalboxers · Answer

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