Is it a bad first text?

[mikjones123]

Is "nice meeting you last night lol" a bad first text to send to a girl after you get her number?

[BetaBucks]

Depends what the "lol" is about. Was there something to laugh about with the way you two met? If not, it seems like you're being kind of rude. Like meeting her wasn't actually nice, or something.

[serious]

No it is not bad but it is not the best way to start the conversation either.

[mikjones123]

Could it prevent her from replying?

[serious]

@mikjones123

No it won't

[Copy_Cat]

Depends, where did you meet her? How long did you talk to her before getting her number?

[mikjones123]

At bar talked to her for awhile

[Nikki1989]

Anyone that insists on texting is a red flag. Communication is key.

[BetaBucks]

This is an interesting perspective type of thing, cuz I find it a red flag that anyone insists on calling. My wife feels the same way too though, so it works well for us.

[Billlewis]

Any text is bad, first, last or anywhere in between, because texting itself is a dead ended, as far as I'm concerned, but I'll give you my opinion regarding what you sent in a moment.

[Billlewis]

No, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Keep in mind, unless she's extremely inobservant, she knows you're hers for the taking if she wants, due to our diminished presence in today's society, so don't sweat the small stuff.