Would this be wrong to text?

[Theodog18]

Me and my ex recently had a miscarriage she said she doesn’t want to date again and doesn’t see herself getting into another relationship, neither do I tbh. I was gonna message this so that we can have a healthy co parenting situation instead of her going and getting a donor.

I’ve thought a lot about everything, and I want to say this once without any pressure. I know how much being pregnant meant to you, and I’m truly sorry I didn’t show up the way I should have before.

I’m not trying to change anything or rush you, but I want to be honest: if you ever wanted to try again, I’d be fully involved and supportive as a father. I also wouldn’t expect anything physical if doing it through a clinic or donor route felt easier or safer, I’d fully support that financially.

I’m already in *******, and I think co-parenting could work in a healthy way if you ever wanted that. I don’t see myself dating or being sexual for a long time, and worst case, I’d adopt myself.

If not, we can fully close this chapter, and I truly hope the best for you. I just wanted you to know where I stand.

[NoDecision]

Why would you be better the 2nd time around, or maybe worse? My thought is to say nothing. You are just making it worse, instead of better in my opinion. Sometimes it is better to let your bet ride instead of changing up your act. The first act might have not had the audience response that you were looking for. 🤔

[Theodog18]

We were in separate states so I couldn’t be there as much as I wanted. I moved states to be near her and we started getting along then she had the miscarriage

[Anonymous]

Do it. I would have appreciated it and did actually discuss and try this with me ex but didn’t get pregnant and ended up with a donor anyway. However, don’t say or promise anything you don’t know for sure you can keep.

[Theodog18]

I would keep the promise so you used a donor I misunderstood

[Anonymous]

Lucky for you. Otherwise you'd have been stuck paying child support for 18 years.

[Theodog18]

Child support is scary but I’d be there for my kid

[Nikki1989]

@Theodog18 The anon just proved what a deadbeat he would be OR is. I just hope he has no kids.

[Opinion Owner]

You don't know anything about me. You couldn't be farther from the truth.

[HollyK21]

I wouldn’t send this.

[In_Trance]

Wrong. Don't do it

[Theodog18]

Could you explain why?

[In_Trance]

The bandage has been ripped off but you won't let the wound heal.
Leaving the way they are right now and move on. It's easier for both of you

[Theodog18]

I understand thank you