What does it mean when a man tells me he wants me to ride his face?

Question

Is he submissive? We have been dating for 5 months and haven’t had sex yet. Do men want just any women to ride their face or is it something they want to do with someone they like a lot?

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

Apologies for those being judgmental. Not everyone is born knowing this stuff. Besides- face riding isn’t the traditional form of sex. Back in primitive days this can’t be guaranteed to have been a thing. And I mean like way back. Either way everyone has their own views of things. For those who know about this stuff- some like it and some dont- hence difference of opinion and reactions/responses to things. People desire/ strive for different things, so not everyone will appreciate, understand the reason for wanting this or this even existing and so on.

Personally I don’t think any guy verbalizing their sexual demands or desires are “submissive.”

I’ve seen guys ask to be dominated but they wanted me to follow a certain set of instructions according to their fetish (es)- and that’s not submissive. That’s a dominant guy pretending to be submissive or wanting to be sexually submissive in terms you do all the work and “leading” while he relaxes but he’ll make his wishes/orders known.

There’s submissive- shy and easy to listen to- agreeable/cooperative

and then there’s submissive- wanting to receive the sexual satisfaction than to be the one responsible for it.

This guy seems like the latter form of submissive and it may not even be an all around/consistent thing. He could just want to receive this sexual treatment from you but after it’s done or beforehand (either way) he may want to do all the sexual treatment on you.

As for why he wants this and seems bold about it- he could like you and want you to trust him or enjoy this and it’s a fetish of his (he may also enjoy it or crave it and believe he will/ maybe have so much expectation built up that he will regardless enjoy it).

OR

he may not see you as anything long term and wants you to hurry up and agree with him so he can hurry and try this out with SOMEONE/ANYONE (female) so he can “get better” and also know what it’s like to do that/ familiarize himself with it. Cause guys who don’t care for girls are either wanting to try things out and see if they like it, or gain “experience” / “practice” so they can be “good” for the girl of their life long commitment or something. But there’s plenty of chance that disconnected guys like this would try to achieve both simultaneously.

If he has committed feelings for you he would DEFINITELY not rush this on you, and respect your feelings about it, and hope you at one point maybe agree to this to show some level of trust and you allowing him the chance to please you in a above and beyond kind of way.

If he’s too immature to respect your decisions and wait, then he’s not the right guy. I also believe most guys who care and want to take a lady serious wouldn’t rush into something so high level. They’d obviously start with smaller stuff and ALWAYS see what she’s comfortable in doing- WHETHER her body count is 1 or 100.

So be very wary of this guy. He hasn’t seemed to ask you what you like sexually and he’s already making what he WANTS clear to you while it involves using your body for sexual pleasure, so you have every right to say no to this individual. If he seems aggressive and pushy, definitely avoid being alone with him anywhere, especially in a home dwelling environment.

Hope this helps some!

best to you 🤗💯

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Where did you get submissive from? I'm with @abbycado... But if you need clarification...

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

I asked an 'Escort" that I liked very much to 'sit on my face", but it was a little awkward for her and I don't know if it was my fault or just a 'balance[ problem.

To answer more directly, I think he wants oral with you but no idea of how he should perform it. I think "riding his face' means for you to squat down on his face and offer your puss/clit to his mouth. He's not submissive, if he wants you to be more active in that part of your sex life/

In my 20's I just never thought of having my girlfriend "sit on my face" since that would have been the better way for her to reach orgasm by moving her hips etc.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I always thought it was because my nose was itching.

It means he wants to please you and he wants to see how you do it he wants to know if you're slow and tender or if you want it bad and you're going to just grind if it's that his nose probably
Is itchy too

AviatorTom · Answer

He most likely wants to pleasure you without the risk and stress of intercourse. He may or may not be submissive, that doesn't matter.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Many girls consider it to be the ultimate experience with a guy and he wants to make sure that he pleases you. But that doesn't mean that he doesn't also want to receive pleasure.

Lionman95 · Answer

He´s probably submissive or he´s seen it in a porn clip and wants to try. I would say that guys need a certain sense of security to ask a woman such a question that could either be that they trust or her not abuse the situation or they think like they never will meet her again.

Billlewis · Answer

It means he's probably like me, in that he's mostly just interested in pleasing you, and that when you're sitting comfortably on his face, with his tongue in your vagina and his nose up your ass, where it belongs, that's when he'll be happiest.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Not exactly, i like to eat a woman out, specially if she sits or rides my face, that doesn't mean i'm a sub, because i can still, put her doggy and pound her good from behind while i pull her hair...🤷‍♂️

Abbycado · Answer

Seriously almost 30 and can't figure this out?

Serkee · Answer

He just wants to pleasure you. It doesn't matter if they're submissive or dominant, most men like having their faces ridden, it's fun.

BetaBucks · Answer

It's less likely about submission and most likely about having his face buried in P. And it's a pretty convenient way to eat.

SpeedAnswerDemon · Answer

he is saying he wants to taste your 😺  Don't worry, you won't crush him. I've seen alotta women get scared they suffocating us, but nope, most of the time it's easy to breathe.

Wallythewalrus2 · Answer

Ask him if that's what he actually said. If you're this confused about it, maybe you didn't hear him correctly.

Twalli · Answer

I don't think I would want anyone I'm not attract to riding my face.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

He lays on the bed or floor, you get naked and sit on his face so your puss is over his mouth. Try it! You'll like it!!

DrPepper12 · Answer

He wants to please you! LET HIM!!!

Anonymous · Answer

It usually is something that they like to do with someone they find attractive.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

He's just flirting with you. Don't take it too seriously.

noohair · Answer

I believe he wants you to ride his face, but I could be wrong.

dudegreat91 · Answer

Basically wants to lick and eat your pussy. Not necessarily a sub

OddBeMe · Answer

Does it matter? Stop over analyzing.

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