Girls, What do you think of guys who can't be converted?

[Anonymous]

So I see videos and hear stories of guys who have had their hearts broken by women and turn into assholes and basically their whole personality and approach changes they are more mean, disrespectful. So I have experienced a breakup that was really messed up but I don’t feel my values in who I am slipping away I felt I was a good person during the relationship and the breakup didn’t rob me of that

[Anonymous]

You’re what I like to call a mature, well-rounded man. You can go through trials with women and not let it define your character or how you treat new prospects. In my opinion the men who can’t be converted are the ones who don’t know how to heal and let go of that hurt. Something bad happened in their past (maybe more than once), they didn’t cope correctly and now every woman has to pay for what someone else did. It’s so toxic, but refreshing that there’s still men you like yourself who know how to handle failed connections the right way.