What's your opinion of guys that can't attract any women?

[Anonymous]

Do you feel sorry for them or is their fault

[Anonymous]

It took me a lot of years to learn what attracts most women. And after I learned it I lost respect for most women. Because it's primarily ego based. The men who attract women get that and the ones who don't do not. Why do some of the worst men attract most women? Because these men do not care about them. They know the buttons to push, they words to say etc. They don't actually have to mean any of them.😆

So do I feel sorry for men that don't attract women? No. Anyone can practice and become a good liar. If a guy doesn't want to do that, why would I fault him for that?

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

For the ones who could improve but refuse to better themselves: I don't feel bad for them.

For the ones who simply lost the genetic, personality, or luck lottery: It's sad, yes.

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

Thanks for MHO.

[Anonymous]

I feel sorry for them, but there’s nothing I can do about it except maybe give them advice on their personality if that’s the problem.

[Asker]

Yeah that's all you can do

[karlainsd]

Lol if some guys expect girls to come to them, then that will not work overall

[ChiTown33]

I don't think very many guys are like that actually. I think what is far more prevalent is some guys grow weary of the significant amount of women who display signs of wanting these men to come to them, these men do, then the women tell them to piss off.🤣
And yes misunderstandings do happen. But any man with any experience with women know how many women flirt just to flirt. These guys just either haven't learned, or haven't accepted this yet.

[SolitarySolace]

They shouldn’t accept it and enjoy their life instead of wanting something that’ll just make them miserable.

[SolitarySolace]

They should accept it *

[Asker]

But aren't humans hardwired to seek out potential mates? How do you ignore a want that's hardwired

[SolitarySolace]

Not me. Maybe at first but women ruined that hardwired need over time and now I just want to die alone

[SolitarySolace]

It helps that I’m asexual

[Anonymous]

A human has to feel empathy and sympathy - same as how there's lots of "sad" in the world in sense of you know, world full of shortcomings world hunger, war, conflicts, people etc

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s their fault and is a lack of effort

[Asker]

A hard working man can still be unsuccessful and a lazy person can still be successful

[BarryLiverstone]

Not probable. If he’s got disciple and eats right, works out, has a job and actively helps others then he’s going to be attractive more often than not. If a guy is lazy he may have money but that’s not sustaining longterm

[Asker]

You don't know that for certain. Being hard working doesn't gurantee anything. Life isn't as predictable as a lot of people make it out to be. A hardworking man can still be unsuccessful no matter how much he works.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nothing is certain in life. But over time there are proven values and traditions that put people in a better situation. Hard working vs lazy? Most of the time the hard working person is more successful over time.

Obv this isn’t in a vacuum. We live in society so a hard working person still needs to do the basics like focus on their health, have good hygiene, create a social network, have a strong family, regularly practice their faith, get good sleep and don’t give into addictions and traumas.

The person willing to work and have responsibilities is much more likely to do those basics every week than a lazy person who doesn’t try to reach goals and doesn’t work for themselves.

What are we talking about?

[Asker]

If a person is hardworking and doing everything right but still fails, what then? Do they need to work harder or are they just unlucky

[BarryLiverstone]

Yup, not everyone gets to succeed. But I’d also say if they are persistent they can find a new way

[Asker]

I just wish more people would say that you should work your hardest but don't beat youself up if you still fail because at least you tried

[BarryLiverstone]

Of course. Look back where I included having a social network, a family and faith. When we try and fail in life we have people to lift us up and support us. It’s the people who give up, are lazy, and never try again that will not give themselves a chance to bounce back

[BarryLiverstone]

In fact the most successful people in our worlds have in fact failed the most times. Pick any celebrity or billionaire and they all have a lifetime of trying and failing.. but they kept trying and never let it stop them

[Jmmmfi4]

You just described me

[Asker]

Im sorry man

[In_Trance]

Their fault