Wth happened to men nowadays?

[Anonymous]

So this is what happened :

I met two guys from Canada. Both cheap af.

one just asked for princess treatment.
no intention sending girl home after a date, would ask the girl to send him to bus station while the street was filled with homeless and it was night. While he was two times bigger than me and a black.
Another one kind of same but worse , basically just screw your people made my friends and neighbours make bad comments on him. and Suggested me to stop being a friend to this person.

I came back to my country and started dating my ex again and then broke up after months because he was financially unstable.

then i met two cheap guys.

One of them even got arrested because he raped two kids and took video of them. Another one just try to fool young girls so he can get free sex.

I met people from work that was interested in me but seem like they won't make a move or just wait for the girls to.
They would call me picky. How come to men nowadays just want girl to provide and chase? This is sick.

[Anonymous]

Honestly if that’s all you’re attracting than more than more than likely it’s you. You out of a certain vibe that brings in those type of men. Two, just reading your posting suggest to me you’re not really educated. Maybe English isn’t your first language, but that could also explain why you attract these types of men. Three, in a way this is what women asked for. Wanting men who were emotional, in touch w their feelings. Telling men it’s ok for them to get their nails done, eyebrows shaped, etc. Women complaining about so called toxic masculinity. So now men have games that down to what they think women want. Which surprise!!! Isn’t even what women want now. Men are pretty good at adapting to how women move, how they change, evolve over time. They’re just adapting to all the nonsense a lot of women have been feeding men.

[Asker]

Seem like i triggered an Incel.
I already mentioned i moved from Canada to another country and know more than just two languages. But sadly i think u just know one.

Your comment just tells me u r 45+ , single and toxic.
Like Most men would do shitty things like the rapist and blame the women for rejecting them.
I m not surprised.

[Opinion Owner]

Omg here w go w a girl who can’t think past her feelings. Grow up you’re almost 30. You’re going to be alone for the rest of your life w this personality, plus w your age. Instead of getting mad why not ask how so is it that O may be attracting these types of men? What can I do to change that? Where can I find men who aren’t like that. But oh no we go to the whole victim hurt my feelings so I’m just going to attack you, throw out a bunch of Hail Marys in hopes that something sticks lol

[Asker]

Blah blah blah. Says the guy who s 50.

Go home and tell your mummy about the girl being picky and hurt your feelings.

[Opinion Owner]

lol I’m lot the one crying about not having a man. Might want to get yourself a starter cat pack cause you’re going to need it. I thought Canadian women would be better than western women but you’re proving me wrong.

[MzAsh]

I agree that there’s something she’s doing, or not doing, that got her tolerating way too much bs. My guess is she’s missing tons of red flags in the beginning.

The other problem is, some guys think they can flip the script, only they’re embarrassing themselves because most men don’t have the attraction level or options that women have, on average. I’ve got a husband who’s emotionally available when necessary*and* he puts in effort. He’s a man who knows how to relate to a woman. Some guys want to pretend this is impossible. In reality, they know it’s not. They just don’t want to humble themselves.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh, sis I totally feel you. Seems like so many guys these days are cheap, immature or just downright creepy. It's like basic decency and chivalry are dead or something.

I don't get dudes who expect you to do all the work and pay for their stuff - like what year do they think this is? And those guys who harmed kids or just wanted to use girls, that's beyond messed up. No wonder you lost trust in men.

The ones at work calling you picky are probably just intimidated you have standards. Too bad, so sad for them! You keep those standards girl. Don't ever settle.

All I can say is don't give up - there are still good guys out there who will treat you right. But I feel your frustration sorting through all the losers to find one. Just avoid the cheapos and creeps at all costs. You deserve way better sis, don't ever forget that! Keep doing you and the right guy will come.

[BetaBucks]

There should be two lessons here. One, you pick bad guys. Two, the most bold of guys are often the shittiest of guys. That's why the good guys get left behind so often, or adapt and become bad guys.

[Asker]

🙂that s all i met.

[NamerOfStars]

They've become poorer. It turns out that men actually DON'T magically cause money to coalesce from the ether. What a shock!

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure whether you've just had a string of bad luck, or you're just not able to attracted good quality men.

[Apple1996]

Men thinking they are prize now a days

[OhLongJohnsoning]

The times, they are a changin'

[Anonymous]

Because dating is nearly impossible now, sad...