I go out every single day and still don’t meet any guys?

[Anonymous]

I’m 18 and I’m about to be a senior in high school. I’ve never had a boyfriend and I don’t like any of the guys at my school. I go out everyday by myself or with my 2 best friends and I still can’t meet any guys? We volunteer at local music venues, go to concerts, hang around malls and shopping centers, go to day events and festivals, movies, and go to the pool. I’m not in a small area I’m in a decently populated part of cali. I don’t think I’m ugly. I get stares and honks on the street and dms but I don’t take that seriously at all it’s all random fuckboys who dm any girl they think looks good. We’ve been doing this stuff all summer and I’m still single, why?

[Serkee]

Young men nowadays have been trained not to approach women. They'll be treated like creeps if they do. If there's a guy you're interested in, try approaching him instead, chances are he'll be overjoyed.

[Asker]

How do I know he doesn’t have a girlfriend or a really specific type? I worry the guys I’m attracted to are handsome enough to actually reject girls. I’ve approach myself a few times sometimes I get a good response other times they have girlfriends or only like blondes/white girls/Asian girls etc. It’s harder for me because I’m middle eastern.

[Serkee]

Guys are worried about girls having boyfriends and having specific types too, that's a risk everyone takes when they approach someone. Good on you though for approaching yourself instead of expecting guys you like to do it. The best advice I can really give is to keep it up, it sounds like you're doing what you should be doing. It might take time but you're still a teenager, I don't think you need to worry.

[jahaims]

If you don't like a single boy in your school you probably aren't ready to date or are too mature to date in your age group. So you have to get lucky and find another mature boy your age or wait.

[Asker]

I don’t dislike all of them individually I just don’t have any strong enough connection with any to be interested in them. The ones I know are pretty immature. You don’t think there’s any way to meet guys outside of school?

[jahaims]

It is just rare to find a boy your age who is mature enough for a healthy relationship. So the odds are against you. You should probably wait to get lucky because older guys will take advantage of you.

[EmmaMary]

REPORTED...DUPLICATE.

[Asker]

what?

[ohsheeT]

. I think what she's saying
is that she's a big shot tattletale and wants everybody to know it so she wrote you a message so everybody could see it..
Instead of sending you something private and giving you a warning... On whatever it is that she sees Double on.

[Asker]

@ohsheeT Thanks for letting me know I didn’t realize what she was talking about. Maybe if she messaged me I’d know what about my post was doubled?

[EmmaMary]

Maybe I could have, if you weren't Anonymous. smh

[Asker]

Could you tell me what was duplicated in my post?

[EmmaMary]

This whole "story" was only posted a week or so ago.

[Asker]

I’m sorry if I wrote something similar to someone else but I haven’t posted this before and I haven’t seen anyone else asking about how to meet people when you already go out a lot. If I saw that I would’ve just read the replies for advice instead.

[EmmaMary]

Well, we'll just have to wait to see what Admin. chooses to do.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[noohair]

Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex. It was usually courtship and marriage. Women wanted freedom and equality. This is what freedom and equality looks like.

[nawtee_me]

Sport events, go and after it gets started good go to the other teams side and look around. I am sure you can meet people from the other school.

[Luckycharms12]

Younger guys don't do that anymore. All dms. when I was growing up we had to go up and talk to a girl if you liked her.

[Enes38]

You will meet from here

[Asker]

No way I’m dating a guy from GAG! They’re all way too old and a lot have strange opinions. E-dating is weird anyway LOL

[Enes38]

Is 34 years old too old for you?

[Asker]

Anything over 21 is too old. I’m still in high school what business do I have with a middle aged man?

[Enes38]

You are so small

[Anonymous]

Have you tried bear traps?