Would you go on a polyamorous relationship? Do you think it works?

[Anonymous]

I met a very interesting guy a few days ago. We've been dating but he's proposing a polyamorous relationship. I feel I'm not into that but I'm also aware love doesn't last forever and even attraction may fade cause it's human nature. For now I wouldn't want to share him with anyone. What should I do?

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I'm in one right now. I'm married to my wife and also in a relationship with my boyfriend. It works for us and we all live together. My wife and boyfriend only are with me (they don't do anything sexual with each other), but we all raise the kids as a family unit. It's honestly a great arrangement if you have the communication and non jealousy that comes along with it.

[ManInChains]

I am an extremely jealous individual so no I would not because it would just not work. It would be extremely unhealthy and would only push the bitch to others and away from me. I've been single for almost 10 years now and am slowly losing the ability to love romantically.

[serious]

Well in my view polymerous relationship is cheap and disgusting. Only people who have no self respect will be fine with this type of relationship.

[Anonymous]

You should probably move on. I would be curious about it myself. However, I would only do it in a structured manner. Where everyone was aware and interested in it; and we date as a group.

[Asker]

I agree with you. It won't work. Especially cause at the beginning I like some exclusiveness

[jahaims]

No and no