Why would he leave me after I found out he kissed another girl and why would he say he would go with her?

[Anonymous]

Daniel and I have been together for almost 2 years next month. At the beginning of the relationship everything was going well, until July or August 2023 came along and I found out he was flirting with two girls who he said one of them was his brothers girlfriend. I even found out Daniel would say he didn’t have a girlfriend. He even made a promise saying he stopped looking at half naked women on line, to respect me and the relationship. Daniel would still see them and even said to my face that he wasn’t. There was a time where I would ask him why he was doing all of these things and if I was enough. I even asked why he would act single. Daniel would say I was toxic , imagining things , inventing things, etc. I stopped asking him for answers and took matters in my win hands. I made an account to see if there was more things and there was. He would offer them flowers, he would even flirt with them. I deleted the account cause it hurt what I saw.
June of this year comes along and I told him about everything i saw. He got mad and said I never trusted him. When he’s the one who would flirt with girls and act single. Daniel starts telling me that he was only joking with them and that he wanted to be their friend. Than tells me that he didn’t want to anymore because they wanted to be with every guy. I still didn’t believe a lot of things he said. So I talked to the two girls who know him, and one of them said he did kiss someone.. and would even talk about an ex he really loved and hurt his feelings. Yesterday night he gets mad at me and says I ruined everything and got him in trouble. Daniel even said I ruined the relationship, when I would ask him about all of this he would say I was toxic. Daniel then says he never wants to talk to me in all his life, that he hates me and said that I’m immature and a hipócrite. He even said I’m the worst thing that he had in his life. Daniel even says he rather be with the girl he kissed… he says I ruined the relationship..

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude, sounds like this Daniel guy was bad news from the start. If he was flirtin' with other girls the whole time and lyin' about it to you, then that's on him - not your fault at all. Any guy who treats his girl like that doesn't deserve you.

My guess is he was tryin' to play both sides the whole time, keepin' you as a backup plan while seein' what else was out there. You caught on to his games and that made him mad cuz he got caught lyin'. Now he's tryin' to turn it all around on you to avoid takin' responsibility. That's a coward move on his part.

Good thing you found out all this before wasting more time on him. You deserve way better than some dude who'll kiss other girls and say mean things to hurt you. Screw that noise. His loss!

Now you're free to meet someone who'll treat you with respect from the get-go. Forget about Daniel - his opinion doesn't matter. You did the right thing standin' up for yourself. Keep your head high missin' out on nothin' with that chump. You'll bounce back for sure!

[itsannalee]

Just leave him.
Man like him will never changes, he will never stop flirts with girls. Only his death will make him stop…