Would you recommend dating a co worker or having sex with a co worker, does it make you desperate?

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[Finchie40]

It can cause some problems if things don’t go as planned , why it’s best to not date or have sex with coworkers especially if you like your job and don’t want to risk screwing up your job if things don’t work out. I made the mistake a few times when I was younger and realized it isn’t worth it. The coworkers I had sex with lied about being on a relationship already and lied about being married. It turned into a nightmare. Plus other coworkers will start spreading rumors as well if they find out you were screwing so and so , So word of advice , don’t do it unless you don’t give 2 shits about your job and you truly know he is in it for the long haul and not the short haul.

[AviatorTom]

I know several people who met their SO at work. My first wife and I met at work, and had a long 20 year marriage that ended in amicable divorce.

It can be risky, and I don't recommend anything involving a boss and their employee. Dsting someone at the company you work st is usually frowned upon by management, but it often happens, and it's best if you are in different departments where you don't always work together.

[elizamichale1]

Well if u click along then no its not desperate

[LoveHotGrillz]

If she's hot and willing to have sex with you, just go for it. Who cares about anything else. This life is meant to be lived and enjoyed.

Live and Enjoy Life!!! Go ask her out. Have some fun with her! Enjoy each other! Live and Enjoy Life!!!

[spartan55]

Girls seem to always think things that have nothing to do with being desperate ARE desperate. It's backwards.

[bowenw]

I have found work is a good place to meet people, but be careful as your employer may have rules against that kind of thing and people will talk.

[Phoenix98]

It’s a dumb idea it just makes your work environment unnecessarily complicated.

[DrPepper12]

Not desperate at all but it's I'll advised for a million reasons

[dudegreat91]

I wouldn't recommend but yeah I have wanted to have sex with my female coworkers who were already in a marriage

[Sambobelfast5163]

I have thought about it. We see each hother everyday but there is a bit of an age gap. She's 22 and I'm 39.

[dudeinohio]

No. Workplace gossip will start and if you break up. They'll talk crap about you at work.

[elaphe]

You meet people in all different places, including work. Why would it be desperate?

[Truthatanycost]

I recommend avoiding both at work.

[SoJust]

I prefer to have sex

[shortster]

I would avoid that. It usually ends poorly.

[OddBeMe]

Desperation would be in the details.

[MasterKS]

Its easy option and mostly safe!

[Anonymous]

Might as well looking for another job

[Dou1994]

Don’t do it!!!

[jjj101010]

I’ve done it