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Hey guys,
so i’m not 100% sure why I've been unhappy lately. I don't know if my relationship with my boyfriend is making me unhappy or if the reason i dont don’t do anything with my life is making me unhappy. Let me explain. My boyfriend and i used to do a lot of fun things together, we used to go out on dates or on little adventures. now we don’t do anything anymore, we barely talk much or we barely hangout anymore. i’ve asked him why and he said it’s because all I've done for the past two years is complain about the past and what he has done is horrible. let me say that in the past he used to follow a lot of bikini girls and like their pictures. i asked him why he did that and he said its because at the time he didn’t know what he wanted and a few years ago he finally realized what he wanted in life and he knew he wanted to be with me. however, i still bring it up and i still feel hurt by it and it bothers me as well how we don’t go out on dates. Now I don't know if im unhappy with my everyday life as well. All i do is go to work and go back home or hangout with my boyfriend at his house. i used to have a good group of friends but we all stopped being friends so i dont talk to anyone or hangout with anyone besides my mom, sister, dad or boyfriend (if he wants to hangout) i used to go to the gym everyday, i used to hangout with my friends everyday and now i dont do any of that. so I don't know if im unhappy because of my relationship or if im bored with my life.
so i’m not 100% sure why I've been unhappy lately. I don't know if my relationship with my boyfriend is making me unhappy or if the reason i dont don’t do anything with my life is making me unhappy. Let me explain. My boyfriend and i used to do a lot of fun things together, we used to go out on dates or on little adventures. now we don’t do anything anymore, we barely talk much or we barely hangout anymore. i’ve asked him why and he said it’s because all I've done for the past two years is complain about the past and what he has done is horrible. let me say that in the past he used to follow a lot of bikini girls and like their pictures. i asked him why he did that and he said its because at the time he didn’t know what he wanted and a few years ago he finally realized what he wanted in life and he knew he wanted to be with me. however, i still bring it up and i still feel hurt by it and it bothers me as well how we don’t go out on dates. Now I don't know if im unhappy with my everyday life as well. All i do is go to work and go back home or hangout with my boyfriend at his house. i used to have a good group of friends but we all stopped being friends so i dont talk to anyone or hangout with anyone besides my mom, sister, dad or boyfriend (if he wants to hangout) i used to go to the gym everyday, i used to hangout with my friends everyday and now i dont do any of that. so I don't know if im unhappy because of my relationship or if im bored with my life.
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If he has stopped following the girls with bikinis then there is no reason why you should continue to bring it up. If he hasn't then you need to make it clear that you don't like it. I can totally relate with you on the I used to this and that because I as well used to do all those things and once it stops life does tend to get boring. So try to join the gym again, try to meet new people or set up a date with a girlfriend. Girl time is much needed and if no one is inviting you then you should start a little group again that means try to get out and meet people and include your boyfriend, plan a trip or something. Life can get boring if you don't make any plans so take the steps to make your life not so boring again..
Alright so you felt the need to really bring your relationship up and your depending on the relationship for your happyness. So the first fix is very obvious, stop endlessly bringing up what he did wrong so he can enjoy the relationship more otherwise he may actually leave you for feeling like he's not apprechiated. Then once he feels a bit better about it you two need to work on rekindling the spark and going on dates again.
Meanwhile feel free to introduce other elements in your life that make you happy, but the toxic behavior towards the boyfriend has to go. He's already bettered himself, now its time to let it go.
it makes me sad because he doesn’t at all enjoy calling me, texting me or even hanging out with me anymore. i know he hangs out with me because he wants to, but i can feel the “force” in the hangout if you understand what im saying. like before we used to have fun when we hangout, now it’s a lot of the times us sitting in the couch either on our phones or watching tv. so it sucks. i ask him if he’s happy and he says yes but i can tell there’s something missing. the spark, the joy we once had.