Do guys prefer women who don’t drink?

[Anonymous]

[V_Injector]

Depends on the goal with the woman.

Just trying to fuck? Well, just like any other substance abuse issue... you can get women to suck and fuck for the substance. You can pimp them and make money. Look up the term "bag whore" and you'll get the idea. There's a reason a lot of whores have a substance abuse problem.

Now if you're looking for much more beyond just getting sucked off and having a wet hole to stick your dick in... You might not be fond of a woman that goes overboard and does things, that a sober her would even talk shit about and say is fucked up.

If you want a healthy family, to be with her for life, and have a healthy relationship... It's not that she doesn't drink really per se. It's more about how she doesn't NEED to drink.

I mean think about it, a girl that doesn't want to drink might have goals beyond getting fucked up and getting fucked by tons of random guys. It's a bit more respectable... even for a guy that just wants to nutt and bolt, hit it and quit it, or just get his rocks off.

[UnicornLobotomy]

I don’t wanna rain on your parade here in fact, I like what you said. However in Vietnam, which isn’t known to have brothels like the Philippines in Thailand, they are more conservative like the Chinese, but less but only a little. The men and women both drink like crazy rednecks out here where I grew up. However the women are much more socially conservative as it relates to relationships. i. e they aren’t sloots.

Where I grew up about 18-19 years ago, it was about his rural you can get in the lower 48 states. Most young men and women were both equally promiscuous retards, typical rednecks that the movies at the time portrayed. Now we can’t find any work on the farms and cattle ranches, the wrong people had kids and moved away or by wrong. I mean single moms on welfare, but not even so much of that. It was my generation where the birth rate started plummeting now the small towns can’t find work. We have to import work from Mexico or South Africa or Central America. We’re begging our nieces and nephews from the city to come help us, We have a population population crisis we have more than enough jobs, but not enough people want to work and there wasn’t enough young people that are strong enough to do the work that we need done out here, a lot of people just drinking their asses and not thinking about the future when I was a kid until it was too late.

I guess what I’m trying to say is, a drinking culture isn’t bad if they can maintain a level of civility, and respect, social traditions of modesty And sexual morality

[UnicornLobotomy]

Note to self: Speech to text while working is not a good idea

[V_Injector]

@UnicornLobotomy I agree with your thinking... please note how I said "It's not that she doesn't drink really per se." Because I don't have a problem with them drinking... it's what they do with their drinking. I mean it's the same with weed. Some dudes lift weights and get buff and do a bunch of shit on weed... others... fuck, they probably have sink full of dishes and didn't do shit other than watch the pick of destiny for the 40th time still tripping out on how Jack Black doesn't need a microphone.

But like you said in your last sentence..."a drinking culture isn’t bad if they can maintain a level of civility, and respect, social traditions of modesty And sexual morality" says exactly what's on my mind.

I guess in the end there is many points someone could take on "all in moderation" and moderation could include or exclude alcohol use at various levels. I'd like to bang/diss on the chicks that sniff wine and then suck a dick because of it though. They blame the wine when it's just them and the alcohol becomes an excuse.

[UnicornLobotomy]

Yeah, and men are largely to blame for letting this happen to their communities and families as well.

[V_Injector]

@UnicornLobotomy Ehhhh, I think men take a bad rap because some men know and consciously they do use something like alcohol to help lube her up to the idea of spreading her legs.

In a lot of communities, the men have been removed by government interference. There are some great welfare benefits a woman can receive as long as they don't have a man around. All involved are victims where that has taken place. That includes young men with no Dad and all they know is Dad isn't around and it's the EBT card that puts foon in their mouth, and the section 8 housing that has a roof over their heads.

[HawkPerception]

For me personally, I prefer a girl that does drink. Not an alcoholic, but a girl that drinks socially. I prefer someone I can share the same experiences with. It's comforting being with someone in the mental state as yourself.

People will always be drawn to others who have similar interests and are willing to experience similar things with them. You can bond with people more so during those scenarios.

It's not a deal breaker for me if a girl can't drink, but again... I'd prefer she was able to with me. I don't drink often at all. Once or twice a month socially on average and I rarely go overboard. I've only been shitfaced a few times in my life.

[sage2021]

Actually, if the guy drinks, he usually wants a drinking buddy.

I don't drink alcohol or do drugs and I think it made the guys I dated be uncomfortable to be honest. Like they were with Miss Goofy Two Shoes. So, most of them just fell by the way side cause they felt uncomfortable around me when they would get sh*t faced on 🍻 and drink all day long, one after another.
That's not who I want to spend my time with.

[DishLady]

Some guys do, some don’t.


Either way, if YOU enjoy drinking, remember to be a lady and no go over the 2-glass (or 3 shot) limit.

[Summeroflove]

For me personally, I don’t care if she drinks a little bit. But someone whose a drunk, going to wild parties, and the list goes on. No thank you….

Having a beer, a glass of wine with dinner, or whatever it is. Doesn’t matter to me. I just can’t stand someone whose getting drunk for the sake of getting drunk.

[UnicornLobotomy]

I think guys want an attractive (not chubby) women thats had 2 - 0 boyfriends, no kids, 1 to 0 tattoos, no bikini or thurst trap pictures on social media, and whom will be okay with their addiction to call of duty, and never take and keep kids through unfair tactics of family court (or if they make a lot of money don’t try to take most of it with false allegations in divorce court)

Now, the majority of these demands are as unrealistic as most women’s demands are today. Of which we don’t need to go over as its a constant running meme today that if graded on high school kids would all pass.

The drinking part, I don't know, I assume the Zees and younger male millennials just don’t want a club twerking girls night out all of the time type of chick.

[Hope19s_]

Preferences about whether a partner drinks can vary widely among individuals and are influenced by personal values, cultural backgrounds, and experiences. Some guys might prefer women who don't drink because they share similar lifestyle choices or because they associate sobriety with certain qualities like responsibility or health-consciousness. Others might not see drinking as an important factor at all, focusing more on other aspects of compatibility, like shared interests, communication, and emotional connection.

For some, drinking might be a social activity that they enjoy together, while for others, it could be something they prefer to avoid. Ultimately, it depends on the individual and what they value in a relationship. What matters most is finding someone whose habits and lifestyle choices align with your own values and what you’re comfortable with. I prefer we both get drunk together and fun because it’s fun

[Pyrofox]

It only becomes a turn off if a woman is clearly drinking out of anxiety or way over doing it. There is a huge difference between a glass of wine or a surprise adult hot beverage vs drinking themselves and others under the table of alcohol, solo.

[zac-10]

I prefer a woman that does. Not an alcoholic though. But in my experience people that just don't drink for moral issues are usually looking for someone different than me so we won't be compatible. With that said, I have t been drunk in line 3 years, but I do have a drink (1-3 beers) a couple times a week in aa social setting. I don't really have alcohol at my house and I don't drink alone. Now if a woman doesn't drink because of interactions with medicine or for a health reason, that can be different.

[Lliam]

No. I just don't want a booze hound. But I do like a woman who can enjoy a good glass of wine or two. If she enjoys the occasional beer or cocktail with dinner, that's fine, too.
Drinking shouldn't be about getting drunk. I wouldn't want someone who likes to get plastered.

I don't care for uptight tea totalers or religious nuts. Give me someone normal.

[Crimsyjo]

I can't answer for guys. But i prefer a guy who drinks then not at all. Tho it's not a deal breaker. And I don't want a guy that gets stupid drunk neither. But if we can have music, drinks and a laugh that would be perfect.

[bobby_bush_eater]

I don't have a preference per say but I definitely don't prefer a woman who gets drunk in public or during the day.

If she doesn't drink that's totally fine and I won't pressure her but it's no more of a plus than a girl who drinks responsibly like a well adjusted adult.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy. Personally I enjoy a beer with Mexican food and a glass of red wine with Italian or a steak, but I don't drink much otherwise. I prefer a woman who is similar, but I wouldn't mind if she didn't drink at all as long as she doesn't judge me for doing it.

[Nikki1989]

Non-drinkers usually prefer other non-drinkers.

[HighValue]

I'd prefer a woman that doesn't drink alcohol at all. I don't want anyone drinking at my house either regardless of who it is. I don't like being around people when they drink.

[andreasderjuengere]

Some will say that.

Anyhow - I find the ''anti drinkers'' to be quite boring.

But the extreme: often drunk, or even alcoholics isn't attractive, either.

[BadApple69]

Guys who just want sex loves a girl who gets drunk.
Guys who are looking for a girlfriend likes a girl who drink very little or not at all.

[CB-Raido-Time]

Assuming it applied because I don't date, but the answer is yes absolutely for sure someone that didn't drink or do drugs. I have seen enough lives ruined by it and I would not want to bring drinking or drugs back into my life.

[derick01]

I prefer non alcoholics and a woman who can drink responsibly. If a woman chooses not to drink, it can make certain social situations a little odd. I've dated and wanted to marry one woman who didn't drink or smoke weed at all.

[AmyHew1tt]

Not in my experience. They all seem to think I'm a prude for it

[Wallythewalrus2]

The drunker she gets, the better I look. I live by that!

[Berethor]

I prefer good women, if drunking makes her a ho then yea, otherwise I don't really care.

[Anonymous]

Me personally I rather someone that wouldn’t drink because some drunk women will cheat their butts off on there boyfriend or husband making everyone miserable causing problems for families or even good relationships

[Yannae]

I don't prefer women who don't drink. But I prefer women who don't go overboard When drinking. Stay in control.

[TedBr]

No I don’t think so. Same as women we prefer people who drink moderately and behave as human beings

[Makeushiver]

Can't speak for anyone aside from myself. Drink, okay. Drunk, no way.

[ProbablyClueless]

I certainly prefer women who know how to moderate their alcohol intake.

[SeekerOfTruth007]

Yup. I couldn't see myself dating or married to someone who did drugs or alcohol.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If she drinks alcohol at all I won't even be her friend, let alone her partner.

[BarryLiverstone]

If she drinks too much and gets sloppy that is unattractive

[worldscolide]

I do. I won't date someone who drinks, smokes or does any drugs.

[DrPepper12]

If you don't curse, don't drink or don't have a pet your sus if you don't do at lease one

[abc--123]

I prefer women who do drink. Not excessively but casually. I like a drink and I like to have a drink with a girl I'm dating

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

I don't drink alcohol, so I'd probably get along better with a woman who also doesn't drink it, or at least does it in small doses.

[Starrrboy]

I don't drink So I prefer a girl who doesn't drink..

[Staximus]

I didn't mind if a woman drinks, just as long as she doesn't act like a fool when drinking

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. Because a wife who doesn't drink is less likely to cheat.

[Anonymous]

Certainly I prefer she doesn't drink to excess. Less likely to end up drunkenly running a train on a football team when I'm out of town. . .

[Jerre]

It makes no difference to me. All I want to do. Is have sex with the woman

[Gdude9]

Yeah definitely make things better for the both sides but it’s not a requirement

[beefcakebradybatson]

I'd prefer a woman who drinks moderately, but can put it away occasionally.

[CubaPirate]

Not this one but there's a lot to be said for having a designated driver on hand lol

[A_Nihilist]

I personally prefer a woman that either drinks sensibly or not at all.

[Anonymous]

No, I'd prefer someone who can drink because nits awkward if I do and she doesn't

[Anonymous]

Probably not the guys you'd be attracted to.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Damm, sounds good to me

[Jupiter1]

It’s a plus but not a necessity.

[Ladsin2]

For a relationship? Maybe.

[tinderf]

It doesn't matter

[Anonymous]

It’s much better that way

[paledreams]

As a non drinker yes

[missindiana93]

Some do.

[OtterMan68]

I don't

[TonyMetal___86]

Better no drink!

[Cheerfull009]

Yes,

[vicphilips]

Yes and no smoke too

[Jmmmfi4]

YES---