What to do when two men set an appointment with you at the same time the same day?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I said okay about meeting up both, thought I’d meet one in the morning and one in the evening but both seem to want to meet at the same time. I know them both in person, and both like me.

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1 y

I am not dating any of them, I’ve got feelings for someone else. It’s just a friendly meeting for me. Haven’t promised them anything, they just want to catch up with me. I am technically single so I’ll meet them but nothing more than that.

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1 y

I might just go out with my female friend instead, men bring too much drama.

[NathanDavis]

stick with your original plan and schedule... if they can't make it, then re-schedule with any or both... just don't set them again for the same day, lol

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yeah, the morning guy will be my karting companion, the late afternoon guy will show me around the exhibition. That’s my day off and I’ve been staying in for a while, talking to my man, who is also having a time of his life and we aren’t exclusive, so why shouldn’t I let other males entertain me when I am doing the activities I enjoy?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t want to go, I wish I could be talking to the man I like instead, but don’t want to be too clingy or needy.

[NathanDavis]

enjoy yourself (=

[DishLady]

So it's rude to schedule two (or more) guys for the same day. You owe it to each guy to give them your undivided attention without being distracted that you're going to meet the other guy. You're not a bank teller or service provider who gets paid on commission per person you see... You're a lady in the dating world. You want each guy to feel special.

[Ironco]

I was going to say "tease" but I like your answer

[DishLady]

@Ironco Yeah, they used to call this teasing, but now teasing is actually just pleasant banter. This is something else (the old def of the term... so you're right.)

[Ironco]

Wait, I'm old? 😜🤪👍

[DishLady]

@Ironco If you are, then I'm right behind you... Remember I like to use "little chippy" which hasn't trended since the 1930s...

[Ironco]

Trixie bird is another

[DishLady]

@Ironco I never heard that one! Lol. Thanks.

[Ironco]

Grandpa called girls that, stuck with me

[DishLady]

@Ironco I got "chippy" from my grandparents too! 😂😂😂

[Daniela1982]

Well, I guess if you let them make an appointment at the same time, you must have had a threesome in mind. Otherwise, why would you make them?

[Avicenna]

Don't waste your time meeting up with either of them if you're interested in someone else.

[OlderAndWiser]

“I might just go out with my female friend instead, men bring too much drama.” Perhaps people of the opposite sex bring too much drama!

[MikeTheBartender]

Back. in My hoe days if I had two girls coming id try to talk them into a threesome. I think one in the morning and one in the evening sounds like a good idea, whichever one you like more should have the evening spot

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I like the morning one more, but kartings are only open before afternoon.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not having anything sexual with any of them.

[MikeTheBartender]

Yeah of course. Fingers crossed for you however it works out.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am serious about not having anything sexual with any of them…

[MikeTheBartender]

Yeah I felt like just on context you were talking about a first or second date.

[Anonymous]

If you know they have romantic interest to you, why would you want to meet both of them? Sounds cheap, to seeing more than 1 person in the same period. It’s different when u guys are just real friends who have no other intentions.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Men always have some intentions, some say it, some don’t. I had a platonic best friend who had feelings for me and almost ruined his relationship with a girlfriend if not me, because I kept it strictly friendly.

[slatyb]

You tell the one who asked later that you are not available at that time..

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Sounds like you're stringing multiple guys along. You may not admit it but you want the attention.

[DishLady]

^ This.

[jspl90]

Seems trashy to meet 2 people same day if its on a romantic meaning.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Not romantic, not sexual. Just a friendly meeting but they like me. I see them as friends though.

[DishLady]

If you know THEY like you then you shouldn't be doing this to them.

[Makeushiver]

Which of the offers, activity, if any, planned. If one wants to take you to a high end restaurant and see a good band afterwards I'd prefer that to an offer to binge on Netflix.

[spartan55]

I don't get what the problem is, tell one a time and tell the other you can't meet at that time...

[VIVANT]

Just reach out and see which one can alter the time by a few hours.

[Anonymous]

Have sex in the shower with the first one so the second one doesn't know you already had sex that day.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not having sex with anyone currently.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

So it is not happening.

[thegreenyogi]

Choose one I guess. It's not possible to split yourself into two.

[Fireguy17]

You have to move one to a different time slot or day.
It's pretty simple.

[Anonymous]

Sure fake brag!

You know they like you and are stringing them among as friends!

Women wonder why get tired of Thier games!

[andy530]

Sounds like they are both into you. If you’re not interested in either of them be honest with them and tell them… then your day will be wide open

[dazzafromoz]

This is a sign to walk up to a bridge and jump off it. End of the world stuff.

[msc545]

Tell one of them you can't make it.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not interested in either one of them, I just want to go karting in the morning and an exhibition later on and they will just be my companions. It’s not about meeting them both.

[msc545]

I assume you were familiar with the phrase first world problems?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am 😛 I have missed your humor.

[msc545]

Color me surprised...

[Twalli]

Tell one you can't meet at that time but you can meet (earlier/later) in the day.

[Zoi1986]

Have Them do what they do in nature have gladiator competition one who survives wins.

[Serkee]

You're stringing both of them along. Stop it.

[Serkee]

Regarding your update, those men aren't bringing the drama, YOU are.

[WhitneySnow]

Agree with your second update

[Yannae]

Well. You move one.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Literally boy oh boy !!!

[OddBeMe]

You MrsDoubtfire it.

[Cheerfull009]

No problem, go threesome

[TallAnon]

Reschedule