Which aspect of married life makes you want to stay single?

[itsannalee]

[jennyPuss]

Nothing. My mindset is probably different than most. If I'm upset with my spouse... I think... I'm upset right NOW. it's temporary. No amount of temporary emotion would make me give up my future and knowing that someday I will be at his side or he will be at my side when we need it the most.

Another thing most people don't think about is you tolerate probably 10x more from a sibling than you do from your spouse, and you don't stop being siblings because they make you upset, right? Most people I think who are headed towards divorce don't think of their spouse as FAMILY. you can't divorce your mom or dad or brother or child.

Things go MUCH smoother when you have a mindset that you are STUCK to your spouse... it's not changing, and you can be miserable or figure out how to make it work. You have to adapt. That means you don't get your way... very often actually you hardly ever get your way. Because what is right and good might not always be what will make you happy. That's called life.

[TonyMetal___86]

👍🏻👍🏻

[DizzyDesii]

Im all for trying to fix things instead of quickly giving up. But if he were to go out and cheat on me, there's no fixing that. There are too many wonderful men in the world to settle for less than what a person deserves
In a “happy committed relationship”

[DizzyDesii]

I love to flirt and I’m scared out of my mind that I’ll flirt with or begin to emotionally confide in someone else once married. I don’t want to risk committing adultery so if I ever marry, I’m going to lock myself away like Rapunzel. I will only hit on the celebs i see in movies 😭😂💀 Some married people think its okay to flirt. I do not

[CB-Raido-Time]

Which aspect of it? EVERYTHING to it. You could not beg me to even date or see anyone today. It was bad enough before humanity had that c-19 shot put into them and the c-19 shot threw away the key, NO WAY!

[LiamJHayden]

Nothing. It what happens if she says "I'm unhappy", leaves, takes half of what I've worked for, and I'm still stuck supporting her part that does.

[jazzy34]

Hmm, nothing really. Unless it’s an abusive situation, marriage is all about getting through the good, bad, and ugly with your spouse. People really need to take off their rose colored glasses regarding marriage. It’s not a fairytale. It’s beautiful and wonderful, but it’s also hard and trying at times.

[RavVid]

Women shut up shop. The deal is I get plentiful sex in return for marrying you.

[Phoenix98]

Nothing really I want to get married eventually.

[Patman97]

Non I just want someone to hold and love until I die.

[Abdulwahh]

Hoe expensive it is to look after children.

[eagle1951]

wish she was still here

[dudeinohio]

None

[Starrrboy]

Kids..

[shortster]

Divorce