Why do women find men who are needy such a turn off?

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

Quite frank a man who shows a constant for being needy is very bothersome. Its like having baby not a man who knows what he wants.

[Anonymous]

He's too easy, too accessible. There's no challenge. She reasons in her mind if she can have him that easily, then any woman can. And if any woman can then there's nothing special or rare about him.

But to be fair this is mostly just the traumatized toxic women who think this way. Typically because the grew up with no strong male role models in her life. So she feels she has to earn a man's love. This is why so many of these women create ersatz relationships with men they can't possibly ever have. Because it's what feels familiar to them.

[Fireguy17]

for the same reason men are turned off by a needy female.
Too much drama, it gets very old very fast.

[VIVANT]

Guys don’t like it in their partners either

[thearchjoker]

true