True/False: guys don't ask for your number because they are only attracted but not interested?

[Radiate143]

I live in an intimate building setting with my family.

The superstar family has a son that's getting hotter by the minute.

He always has a dreamy smile and isn't fake when he sees me around and says hi ni matter what.

I would say 70% of the time he's like this. The other 30% he won't say hi or just pass me by but then he will stare.

His mom really seems to like me and has always asks me personal questions and she and her daughter (his sister) always say how pretty I am.

He gave me the weirdest look the other day like just this freeze stare no smile. Odd.

Then he went back to being extra courteous like usual.

I am probably wasting precious moments even thinking about him. Thoughts?

True: attracted but don't actually like the girl

False: like them but can't or won't act

[Anonymous]

If he’s attracted to her he’s interested. Whether that’s for a real relationship or just sec. Either way he’s interested. I’m thinking he isn’t interested in you. He says hi because it sounds like a small building where you all pretty much see each other everyday or every other day. I think if he was interested, sounds like enough time has passed that he would actually talk to you more.

[Radiate143]

I see him maybe twice a month. But yeah, I still feel the same way you do.

[CubaPirate]

He might just be shy and afraid of rejection

[MisterWack]

50/50, hard to say. Same with girls asking for guy’s numbers. This girl in my class years n years ago asked me for my number / location…. She didn’t know anything about me, only attracted physically since I was 1. Quiet 2. Kept to myself 3. Was strict with my friend group.

[VIVANT]

Who cares you’re not living by his permission 🤷🏻‍♀️

Worry about your own actions, you can’t know his mind. If you like him, Ask him out. If he says no, move on. I’d he says yes, have fun. Case closed. Good luck 🍀

[Radiate143]

Thanks for weighing in. From my experience, asking guys out often results in a date but horrible treatment. Guys don't tret women well who they didn't "chase" so I'll not say anything.

[Anonymous]

What? Yeah your wasting time he does not care about you! His sister seems to like you more then he does.

Guys ask for numbers no matter what we just go for it. Won't matter if they like you or just lust for you

[Radiate143]

Well, I haven't done anything so I haven't wasted anytime. But yes, I assumed he doesn't care. It's good to see this because a lot of guys want to tell women no they're shy and so on... but reconfirming my position, no matter the circumstance guys will ask.

They guys that ask seems to be the psychos and end up being sadistic so it pretty grim.

[Opinion Owner]

Yup kinda screwed if they do or don't

[ProbablyClueless]

It can go either way. Why bother making a decision now before you've actually had the chance to get a feel for the situation? The guy probably doesn't have any intention beyond learning what you're like.

You don't need or get any benefit from making a decision about the guy now.

Just give him your number and figure out his intention later.

[Radiate143]

Why should I volunteer my number? No.

[ProbablyClueless]

Obviously you shouldn't give your number unless he asks for it. I'm just saying that you shouldn't read into things too intently

[Radiate143]

"Just give him your number and figure out his intention later.".

I agree. I won't. I actually am going to forget about it. I don't even think he can stand me. I think it's politeness due to his mother's high regard for me.

[Radiate143]

Also, waiting to figure out a guy's intention is about the stupidest thing a girl can do.

[ProbablyClueless]

It's not stupid to wait, you just set boundaries with the person until the relationship becomes more defined.

[Radiate143]

I agree with this. I just wouldn't describe it the way you did.

Cheers

[ProbablyClueless]

I apologize for being unclear. Best of luck!

[avery58]

Sounds about right. Lots of girls think that just cause a guy finds her attractive he wants to marry her or something. That's why they wonder why he doesn't ask them out or messages them

[jahaims]

Opinions aren't true or false. Facts and fallacies are.