Why can’t I get along with guys?

[jackieistired]

It really feels awkward, guys feel like aliens to me. I’m straight, I want one but I don’t know how to talk to them lol

[Finchie40]

Because you are holding back and not being yourself , so just be yourself , most of us guys’ are very easy to talk to , just start up a normal
Conversation like you do with your friends , if he talks back and continues the conversation with you , then it usually means he is interested in you or likes talking to you, once the conversation is going , you can eventually start hinting to him that you are interested in him , compliment something about him that you like ,, his eyes, his arms , his outfit , his smell his hair etc. if he likes you back? , he will more than likely say what he likes about you. Just be yourself and slowly get to know him. Most of us guys’ like when a girl approaches us and starts up a conversation with us , if he doesn’t like you , hopefully he isn’t rude about it , but sadly that’s the chance we all take when we are interested in someone. So if he is rude , just ignore him and walk away or If you want to say something back , just say I’m sooo sorry to bother you , sorry I didn’t see that sign flashing above your head, that says you aren’t a nice person and walk away , I say that to rude disrespectful girls’ all the time lol when they give me the cold shoulder right away lone I am this fucking mind reader lol. Me personally can’t stand people that are that way , like their shit don’t stink like we can read each others’ minds and know what they like and don’t like or what their status is. . When a girl approaches me that I am not attracted to , I am still polite to her , there is no reason to be rude , the only time someone should get rude , is when the other person isn’t taking No for an answer , after you told them once already No. I will usually tell a girl I am not interested in , sorry , I am already seeing someone else , but thank you for noticing me. I am flattered you did , then walk away. So people that are rude right from the beginning , are assholes in my opinion that need a reality check

[ohsheeT]

I think maybe you're just uncomfortable I think once you get comfortable with somebody it would just be 10 times easier for you because your brain doesn't think about getting along with them or anything it's just in that moment of time whatever happens and comes up that's where that bond that friendship starts taking place so you just have to let go of all the fears be confident in yourself no matter what happens you'll be there

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Honestly, men are much easier to talk to. 😊 Just be approachable.

[Anonymous]

Just be yourself and act feminine. Guys will love you.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Simple, but I think it will work, when I think about it, especially in the 20's where everything is more simple

[Nik1hil]

Fine I will be your lab rat.

Hit me in DM.

But no dirty talking, or sexy talking.

I prefer long deep conversations, and please no Links to any sort of pictures. I have been hit by those from girls here ( It is my weak spot), And It kills my interest in conversation with her.

[jackieistired]

Well that’s more daunting, it’s a big jump from not talking to deep conversations

[Nik1hil]

You take the controls, Start wherever you want to? Ask me anything, if it is too personal, please in DM. otherwise you can ask here.

[Nik1hil]

deep conversation can be about anything. They do not have to be about each other.

Like deep conversation on topic, how with Bitcoin's arrival, we have a new Decentralized economy emerging, and competing with a centralized economic system. When 5000 years ago decentralized economy went out of the window, nobody thought it would ever make a comeback and look today. it is blooming.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Bold approach lol !
But interesting, to see that as a roleplay dating, you're right, it could very well be a solution, clever !

[Nik1hil]

@Maybe_Maybe_not Precisely, She faces No Risk, We might not reach all the way, but at least she can get past " the Alien 👽 guys " stage

[RavVid]

Well we have to learn how to talk to alien girl creatures so it is only fair.

I went to bars on slow nights and practiced on bored bar girls. Might work for you in inverse.

[Berethor]

Can talk to guys online, it easier than in real life, guys and girls are different but not alien.

[thearchjoker]

with what part do you struggle? coming up with topics to talk about? not knowing how to act around men? not coming off the wrong way? anxiety?

[jackieistired]

It’s literally everything, it’s just super overwhelming for me. It’s really bad.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

It's not you unless you're super weird.

You just haven't found someone you share chemistry with.

[jackieistired]

I’ve been told I’m weird but can’t guys see last that

[DrPepper12]

Social anxiety. A therapist or Rx may help. I've seen really good results with Rxs

[ProbablyClueless]

You might feel pressure to put on airs and impress them.

[Sharkstealth]

Just remember your young and hot and that all guys are trying to touch you or welcome your company.

[Juxtapose]

Guys are easy if you run into those who are not total weirdos or perverts. Just talk about something you both find interesting & be natural.

[Twalli]

We generally like sports. As for other things, weather and TV shows are good topics to discuss with almost everyone.

[scott04sa22]

Your not finding the right people who you can connect / bond with

[nawtee_me]

Hey, how are you? So what are your hobbies or what do you like to do for fun or to just get out and have a good time.

[RedInnocent69]

What do you try to talk to them about? What do they talk to you about?

[dragoblack]

Be honest with us, talk about common interests, and what kind of things we are into.

[jahaims]

You are too in your own head

[noohair]

I felt that way when I was young.

[exitseven]

Just be yourself.

[FunkyMonkee]

Just talk.