My single mom has recently started sleeping with a guy who I dont like at all. What should I do?

[HassanMahmoud]

[Oliverlogan263]

This is a tricky situation, man. On one hand, you want your mom to be happy. But if this guy is giving you a bad vibe and you really don't trust him, that's worth paying attention to. Here's what I'd try:

- Talk to your mom in a calm, respectful way. Tell her specifically what about the guy concerns you - the way he acts, things he's said that rubbed you wrong, etc. But be careful not to accuse her or attack the guy directly.

- Ask questions to understand what she likes about him too. Compromise that you want to give him a chance, but ask that she be open if things start to change or he does anything to worry you more.

- Spend some time with them as a couple. See if your worries come true or ease up. Maybe get to know him better and find out he's not so bad.

- If it still feels off after that, all you can do is explain your feelings. But she's a grown woman who will make her own choices too. Try to respect that while still protecting yourself.

- Make sure to spend good one-on-one time with your mom too without this dude around. Keep your bond strong no matter what she decides on her relationship.

Just be honest in a caring way. Hopefully she listens to your concerns without getting angry. Maybe it works out, maybe not - you did what you could as her son to look out for her. Stay chill either way, bro.

[seviyorummm]

Who did your mother want to sleep with and did she sleep with him?

[HassanMahmoud]

Yes, they have started sleeping together regularly

[seviyorummm]

Follow me and I'll send you a message

[HassanMahmoud]

Nope

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Basically nothing. It's her choice who she wants to be with. You wouldn't want her interfering with who you chose to be with, right?

[KpopMusicFan]

is your mom dating this person or just sleeping with them? cause if your mom is dating him then it's fine she sleeps with him.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

You are 26, nothing you can do but tell her you don’t like him, welcome to the wild west

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

You could give your mom 30 days to move out if she doesn’t break up if you own yhe house