I like him but he uses me for sex. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I like this guy sexually and romantically. He only likes me sexually. I love having sex with him but I don’t like feeling used. He gets sex and disappear and I don’t care at first but slowly feel bad later. He reappears then disappear then reappear for sex. He treats me like the lowest person and someone to be embarrassed of but I don’t care. I do enjoy having sex with him but hate feeling of being used after cause I really like him when he doesn’t like me at all. I’m afraid to cut him off cause I’ll miss the sex we have. What should I do?

[SkipPerk]

For biological reasons, women are attracted to such men. Because they are all attracted to them, these men never need to learn, grow or develop. They have sex with many, many women, and focus their energies on career and male friends.

women must like this, or they would stop. If you do not like this, stop. Look for men who are perhaps not so high status or good-looking, but want what you want (relationship). Do this soon, because time is not on your side. Furthermore, men who want to marry are turned off by women who have many sexual partners (especially like this)

also know that men like your semen provider will never change. Do not ever expect that

[GingerGuy]

Well this is the way it is, so YOU have to decide which is more important to you right now? Having him there for sex when you want it, or respect? You're not going to have both with him. As someone that's been there myself, I also suggest you look at how you feel a little deeper. Are there feelings there also? Or potentially? They can be hard to see when you also feel disrespected, but maybe it's a combo of both? But yeah, it's your decision, one way or the other, which is more important to you? And if you choose sex, then you have to accept that respect isn't part of that, so don't "expect" it with this guy. Otherwise it's only going to make you angrier and angrier each time.

[Siren777]

Don't disrespect yourself like that. You allow him to use you so you cannot get upset about it. Get a new guy that will treat you right. You can get sex from any other guy, why not from one who treats you well and respects you?

[spartan55]

@siren777
Well said.

[bones_20]

You need to find someone who has respect for you. And you need to have more respect for yourself.

[spartan55]

What do you mean what should you do? You think you can somehow get him to be your boyfriend if you fuck him enough? This guy doesn't even give you the idea he likes you. You are afraid to let him go because you will miss the sex? Buy and vibrator, and work on your self respect and esteem before you get into your next relationship. You won't get quality men using your way.

[LaNc3L0TT]

If you like only sexual interaction with him (which you don't), keep on doing that. But like you said you have some romantic feelings to this guy which he don't I would say that you should break that. You are probably afraid to do that because there are romantic feelings from your side so you don't want to lose this guy. But if you keep going with this you will end up in much deeper problem.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You like him but he uses you for sex what should you do? I say use him for sex in return & enjoy the stress reliever & remember condoms prevent minivans.

[Stevefiveo]

Ask him if you can cuff him to your bed so he can't run away afterwards.

[Anonymous]

Dont just let him use you like that. You'll get more pleasure with someone who respect you for sure.

[TheFlak38]

you don't have anything else to offer anyway.

[Wise4myage]

Use him for sex, or just move on.

[raaz222]

You also enjoy and also search for a real partner.

[Anonymous]

Stop having sex with him.

[cookiecrusher]

Get theraphy.