Is he using me for just sex or does he actually like me but doesn’t want to admit it?

Anonymous

Being sleeping with this guy for over two years on and off. Neither one of us have gone off with other people. He was cheated on by his wife 10 years ago and was badly affected by it.

He says we’re not in a relationship it’s just sex and that it’s not a reciprocal relationship. But lately he has started to come up to visit me at uni which is three hours away from where he lives.
Last time he came up he bought flowers. He stays the night. We watch a film and then we have sex. In the morning we go and get breakfast sit and talk and go for a walk. He’s very affectionate after sex he cuddles me, strokes my hair and arm. he holds my hand. Talks to me about personal things.

Is he using me for just sex or does he actually like me but doesn’t want to admit it?
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