Guys what are the red flags in girls?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

A girl that is selfish that only cares about herself , she doesn’t give the same way she wants to receive , in return , she never admits she is wrong She is always right. She treats people like they are a convenience to her and acts like her shit doesn’t stink. She will prioritize everyone else but her partner. She has a reputation of getting around with multiple men and using multiple men. She has no dignity or respect for anyone but herself. She is an attention seeker after she is already in a relationship with someone already , thinking grass is greener on the other side , That’s a girl I stay away from , she might persuade me into fucking her , but I won’t commit to her

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

If she lives in western society and she calls herself a feminist, is entitled, narcissistic, egotistical, materialistic, uses a lot of makeup (usually a sign of being materialistic and judging based on social status), uses brand products (the previous points I mentioned about using excessive makeup plus being a sheep), doesn't think about anything in life, and so much more.

I think I got the majority stuff at the top of my head.

Summeroflove · Answer

Entitled someone whose entitled is a major red flag especially if she’s brazen about it. It’s okay to know what you’re wanting form a relationship, to express your wants/needs, as well as to break off a relationship on good terms because you’re both looking for something different. But to feel like you’re entitled to something, someone, to have this done, to get this, etc. It’s just run for the hills dude that woman will make you miserable long term.

One sided, someone who basically has rules for thee but not for me, someone who demands (is entitled like I said before) for you to give her the whole world but offers nothing in return. A one sided relationship isn’t a hellhole you want to fall into there are people who genuinely have something to offer, and more then just sex, if even that.

She’s dressing promiscuously, I don’t mean wearing shorts on a hot day or a bikini to the pool. But intentionally dressing in a way to provoke sexual attention whether it’s to have sex or feed her ego it’s a red flag.

Someone who has a sexist attitude towards men. Look if you just hate men just avoid dating, don’t waste your time, and don’t waste anyone else’s time. If someone doesn’t like someone because of how they’re born there is going to be problems.

Someone who has a high body count and this goes for men too by the way. Major red flag I’m not saying someone has to be perfect. But someone whose slept with a high number of people is very likely to cheat at some point especially because they a lot of times are addicted to sex and need that to be happy. As someone on crack needs crack.

Someone wanting sex too early in the relationship. Major red flag that this person is using you or is just looking for sex. She could be using you for sex, she could be sex bombing you, the list goes on. If someone’s ready yo jump in bed and you build a relationship based on just sex that relationship is doomed especially when sex gets boring and someone ends up cheating. If someone wants sex too early just forget it and move on.

Someone who seems attracted to you not for who you genuinely are but because you have money, status, etc. Be very careful men about what you’re flaunting. It may feed your ego to get female attention, but at the end of the day QUALITY over QUANTITY….. Same for women. That means you should want the quality of women pursuing you NOT quantity.

Another red flag is playing games. Whether it’s hot and cold, hard to get, or even more nefarious even malicious games. Either she’s not into you, isn’t going to give a stable relationship, is keeping you on the back burner, or is playing with you for her own ego. Some people keep people interested in them for their own amusement without having any intentions on being with them.

on_my_knees · Answer

Like, if she's always talking about her love for extreme rope play, but only in the context of being tied up during family game night with her mom in the next room. Or, if she's always mentioning her passion for orgasm denial, but her idea of a good time is flogging me while watching some stepfather roleplay. And then there's the whole orgasm control thing, oh yeah, that's a real tricky one. If she's into edging, but only into it in the parking lot of a church, you gotta wonder, huh? Why do I only have permission to orgasm while her stepfather is preaching inside the church and we're in the parking lot in his car? I've been to church with coom stains on my shirt, and it's really uncomfortable.

RavVid · Answer

Red flags are the absence of green flags. I have my green flags down to 1/genuinely nice 2/cooperative.

Those two are umbrella qualities for a number of desirable traits but are reasonably observable on short acquaintance and difficult to maintain as a facade over time if they aren't genuine.

A selfish girl might give the impression of being nice most of the time but she will slip up over time. 'That wasn't nice' is the red flag dump signal. I want 'that was nice of her' signals.

Anonymous · Answer

she gets offended easily, can't argue facts without resorting to slander

she can't accept my preferences and what I would prefer in life without getting into some weird psychoanalysis BS

she's inconsistent and wants to play Schrodinger's feminism for herself or play alpha fux beta bux for different guys e. g. making excuses for some guys because they're hot and scrutinizing ugly guys for the same behavior

The_Confusion · Answer

She doesn't understand speech, and doesn't run over close to listen and re-ask when I quietly speak to her facing away from her in a different room.

Serkee · Answer

One of the biggest red flags to me is being pro-choice. I want to be a father, and I could never be with someone who thinks it's her right to murder my unborn son or daughter.

genericname85 · Answer

obesity, tattoos, body mods (other than maybe ear rings), smoking, taking astrology seriously, having children from previous partners, unemployed, in debt (besides car, house or college degree loan payments, talkig bad about ex partners, unnatural hair coloring, overbearing makeup. that are the ones right off the top of my head.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Racism, homophobia, too political, religion, hygiene, not able to hold a conversation, quiet, shy, toxic attitude, toxic personality etc.

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

Promiscuity, being disloyal, obviously being feminist is the ultimate red flag.

Iron_Man · Answer

Feminism to the highest level, non-loyal selfish

Billlewis · Answer

If she says she hasn't had sex for a long time.

lorenzomichael · Answer

Too many friends, arrest warrants, some type of drug problem, alcohol abuse. Being bisexual, not working. cruel to animals and a dirty mouth

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Short hair, tiny caboose, spindly or fat legs, SMALL BOOBS !!!

LiamJHayden · Answer

Rudeness. Absurd expectations. Loves drama.

DrPepper12 · Answer

How much time do you have? 🚩

paledreams · Answer

Rudeness, controlling or they smell

Anonymous · Answer

If she is passive/submissive.

eagle1951 · Answer

i don't know that time of the month lol

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