What are some red flags in girls?

[Anonymous]

What are some red flags in a girl.
These are some red flags for me. Do suggest your opinions girls!!!
1) Too many male friends
2) Way too much social media presence like thousands of followers on instagram
3) Drinking and partying without any goals in life
4) Wanting guys or boyfriend to constantly entertain them
5) Not able to enjoy silence or peace furing gaps in conversation
6) Flashy clothes and bitchy behaviour

[HaleyCatgirl]

I can think of a lot but a lot of people I see you have these make me angry is about childish they are so I'm not even going to go into it. I would have to debunk the followers on Instagram unless you're posting half nude photos then you're disgusting and the people who are following you are the ones who are always complimenting you and you follow them back red flag right there. I actually got rid of Instagram because it's just pointless when I have a phone number I can give to my boyfriend or whatever. My boyfriend and I know how to communicate. There are a bunch of people on here who you can tell don't know how to communicate because instead of asking the person they're with they're on here asking the community posting their dirty laundry lol.

[Asker]

I understand what you are trying to say here. Believe me i have zero posts on instagram. I am all new to this. You are really lucky to be with someone who you can talk freely to. And as of most people on this platform you are partially right about the dirty laundary. But some are here to know the do’s and don’ts too. They may also fear asking their partner such intimate questions that is why they ask them here. Also hopefully i find a relationship as healthy as yours. All the best for your relationship.

[HaleyCatgirl]

I appreciate it I think I got lucky because my boyfriend was my best friend since I was I think five it's been a long time so yeah we only just started dating but we trust trust each other enough to feel safe asking stuff

[Asker]

✌🏻😀

[_Maya_]

Lol why you asking girls to list red flags in girls? Shouldn't you be asking the guys that dude? Too many male friends? Uh how is that a problem? Unless you are insecure af that isn't an issue. I don't do social media other than insta and it is locked down to close friends and family only. Number three is a red flag. They aren't going to amount to anything just partying. Entertainment? I don't need someone to entertain me lol. Flashy clothes? According to who? You? So now you are going to dictate how they dress? Good luck dude and I am guessing you are single.

[Asker]

Actually yes i am single. And i thought of asking girls since guys have been played by girls a lot. So i tried asking them and they think all girls are sluts. Which I font so i better thought to ask girls. I have also faced a lot of situations where girls are in a realtionship have a lot of male friends flirt with everyone but tell their boyfriend that they are not cheating and that the boyfriend is insecure. Flashy clothes as in showing too much cleavage and posing on insta to flaunt their body. I am not dictating anything. Sorry if my question makes anyone feel like it. Its not subjective to you so no offence. Just in general question. Dont mean to hurt any sentiments there

[Xoxocutekitty]

1. preferring male friends over female friends if she's clearly embracing her femininity (that's pick me energy). It's OK to have more male friends if your life has certain circumstances (moved and only know his friends, interested in male dominated hobby, all your coworkers are male etc.). It's a bit weird to prefer men who are likely attracted to you as friends, than other women who get women stuff and whatever else you like.

2. When they things like say "other girls are always jealous or mean to me" (people can be mean, but that doesn't prove why she can't have 1 friend of the same gender).

3. Girls that never pick up a bill (leeches exist regardless of gender).

4. Girls that take days to respond - not a red flag so much as she's just not that interested in being in your life, platonic/romantic etc.

[Asker]

Thank you for your reply🙏🏻😀

[12karen]

As a girl, for me having too many male friends should not be a red flag... But I understand what you mean by bitch attitude, the social media and everything you said...
The flashy clothes is not about dictator but about modesty.
Most girl do that but shouldn't, play the victim, I mean she did something wrong and then accused you for not leading her to the Truth but then if you try to help her, she would be mad too. Brefff sorry for my English, being single is not a prob, I hope that you 'll find the right one

[Asker]

Yesss they do that all the time. I did try to help my female friend and she got so mad about it. Women think that if a guy asks them to wear different clothes they are controlling and dictators! So not true we are just looking out for them that’s it! Also thankyou! Hopefully i will find the right one✌🏻 Dating is very complicated these days💯

[12karen]

Welcome, I'm glad you got my pov

[12karen]

U still single?

[A_Bell]

Weird question to ask women. If you are a red flag, you wouldn't probably realize it and how would you see it from a guy's perspective?

There are women who blame men in general for their problems in life and are bitter over past relationships. I would suggest avoid these people.

[Asker]

Yes you are correct it is a weird question! But you know you can get experience from other people’s relationships and live through which you can get to know the red flags yourself and check if you or anyone else has them! I do try to avoid these type of women and men in general. But they just seem to be everywhere these days making dating more complex than it already is. Thankyou for your reply!😀👍🏻

[Bellawiththefatass]

Wanting you to spent money on them all the time or only go on dates that require money. Very flirty with dudes.

[Asker]

But isn’t it the tradition that men pay for everything on dates. I mean girl use the excuse all the time that (he was nice but when it came to bills he wanted to split! God can you believe it). This is most general reaction from every girl i have heard. Also thanks for the reply✌🏻😀

[Bellawiththefatass]

But if she doesn't want to chill and. Only want you to pay for shit it's bad

[Asker]

Yeah that’s true💯

[Matilde03]

I haves 2 children an I guess a red flag.

[Asker]

Meaning?

[Matilde03]

It is my “red flag” 😂