Would you consider getting engaged under a year too soon?

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Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

It depends on the relationship what’s right for someone maybe isn’t right to someone else. But if someone’s going way too fast rushing into marriage it’s a red flag. It’s as big as a red flag of the other extreme of future faking.

You have to wonder if someone has a motive for trying to lock you down so quickly and why…. Is it a genuine place of love or could or be something else it really just depends.

Every relationship is different and moves at its own speed if two people know deeply it’s meant to be why waste time on the other hand waiting 10 years is too long. But again…. Maybe for someone that’s what’s right.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

No. I asked my wife to marry me exactly a year after we met.

I quite a few long-term girlfriends in my life, but eventually realized, for one reason or another, that we couldn't be life-long partners.

With my wife, I was sure.
We got married almost exactly a year after I proposed. We've been happily married now for almost 28 years, had LOTS of fun, and built a wonderful life together. We trust each other completely and are 100% dedicated..

rachel776 · Accepted Answer

we've been together a year and a half now and i think it might happen on Christmas or New Year's or Valentine's Day, or the Stanley Cup (which means we might never get married 🫨)

normally Valentine's Day would be too cheesy for me but we unexpectedly got together on Valentine's Day

this is Miss Not Getting Married Until I'm 30 saying this...

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

I personally know people who had "whirlwind" courtships, immediately followed by weddings within just a few months and those people are still happily married today.

bowenw · Answer

For me it would depend on how much time we've spent together. If we see each other once every two weeks, it may not be. If we've lived together for 9 months it may be enough time to make an informed decision.

BetaBucks · Answer

Nope. There are very few perfect girls out there, and if a guy meets one, he should seal the deal. Everyone else can take their time deciding if it's worth it or not.

4ngelic · Answer

at your age maybe not, if you have the goal of having a kid. but in gen yes. i think you should wait at least 4 years before getting engaged

LaurenM1997 · Answer

No cause if you rush into getting engaged too soon then that’s not good cause then you are rushing stuff

sawno · Answer

Absolutely but I don't believe in government contracts anyway.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Not really. 6 months would be too soon.

Likes2drive · Answer

Not really , sometimes you know it’s right, I got married after a year and it lasted 17 years until getting divorced

Anonymous · Answer

Is there a particular reason that made you want to move faster rather than slower?

susygurl · Answer

Personally, yes. But i wouldn't judge others. Id want more time to see who they are more

abc3643 · Answer

Yes. I'd say wait at least 2 years.

rosemilk · Answer

never ever. i think that's too soon

WhitneySnow · Answer

A little too soon but it’s up to you

Marathonmama · Answer

No not at all when you know you know

TheLovelyWoman · Answer

I got married after 6 months of dating my husband.

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yup definitely

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes. Way too soon!

Iron_Man · Answer

To soon

power_wolf · Answer

not at your age no

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

No way.

Would you consider getting engaged under a year too soon?

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