Why gay are dating guys who look or act like a girl and lesbian are dating girls who look or act like a guy, why don't they just stay straight?

[Anonymous]

[RebelinSteel]

Even with straight guys n girls, we are attracted to different types, not all guys like quite feminine girls, and not all guys like athletic ones.

when you consider that attraction is highly personal, and preferences can vary widely among individuals. Some gay men might simply find feminine qualities to be attractive, just as others might be drawn to more masculine traits. It’s all about what resonates personally with each individual. Then you have how cultural and social norms can shape our perceptions of attractiveness. In some cases, the portrayal of feminine men in media and society as sensitive, expressive, or caring might align with what some people find appealing. As with straight people, in a relationship, some people are attracted to traits that complement their own personality. A gay man who identifies with a more masculine presentation might find a feminine demeanour appealing, as it contrasts and complements his own traits.

[Nirmroth]

Bec they find the same sex body & mannerism more attractive than the opposite one would be my hot guess.

A lesbian who fullfills the masculine part in a gay relationship is still not the same as a man.

[Asker]

I understand they're attracted to the same sex body and mannerism but why does she needs to fulfill the masculine part, why not be girl girl looking, acting and being GIRL

Is she's attracted to girls only, why girls doing male stuff

[Nirmroth]

Because its how we are wired. In a relationship there's always one Part that Projects more feminine Energy and the other more masculine one. Like two Puzzel pieces that toghether make a whole. This is regardless of gender. I saw rls were the man was the feminine part and the woman the masculine one tho its ofc more rare.

Look Up whats meant with masculine and feminine Energy its something separate from sex/gender. I am sure you have some traits that have their origin in masculine energy aswell thats how it is for all. Its just different how much we lean towards one side

[Anonymous]

That is not how sexuality works.

[Asker]

Explain please, that's why I ask...

[itsannalee]

How it works?