Why are guys not friends with lesbians but girls are friends with gay boys?

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[SomothErgai]

for the same reason men tend not to be friends with straight women either. straight men want to fuck most women. their sexual orientation is utterly irrelevant. and in fact if a guy is friends with a lesbian he is mos likely hoping, deep down, that he can convince her and her girlfriend to do a threesome with him. it just doesn't work out in most cases.

not to say all. obviously there are exceptions. but this is the actual reason why it's fairly rare.

Is that uncomfortable? Maybe. so what? It's the truth.

[Anonymous]

Gays act like women, they like to be in women's groups. Women like to gossip with them, there is never any sexual contact.

But lesbian girls don't have any connection with men like girls-gay.

Why would men who are attracted to women be friends with lesbians because of the contact they will never have? What they share with each other?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Gay men are safe men to women, meaning they feel comfortable with them because they have nothing to fear like they do with men normally. No woman has her guard down around a man completely, not in any given situation.


Lesbians, on the other hand, get treated like “one of the guys” and a lot of times when they get exposed to the casual misogyny men share amongst each other, they don’t enjoy it.

[Anonymous]

Because most lesbians don’t like men, not just not attracted to men.

[Red_Arrow]

There have been some lesbians I have had as friends in my life. I treat them as people, respectfully, and all is well.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Perhaps due to socialization.