Why do men hate on girls that have parents who financially support them?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

I didn't know men did that.
And what is the reason behind it I don't even understand that it's part of life it's part of having a family and that's what parents do for their children as they grow and become independent
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I wouldn't worry about it I would stay in your lane and keep doing what you're doing if the guy is doing that to you he's just not for you that's all if he cannot understand it or accept it he's not for you

[razelove]

Most often because men do not enjoy the same treatment. Even before turning 18 I had to start becoming financially independent, buying my own car, paying for my own insurance and gas, had a small efficiency apartment so I could be alone with girls. No money for college, and at 18 I was out the door and decided to join the Marines so I'd have something for the future. My savings were not enough for college and working part time.

My sisters had their cars bought, insurance covered, and college/trade school paid along with staying in the house until their 20s and first apartments covered along with dorm expenses and what not. Hell, my first car got sold while I was in boot camp though the title was in my name to pay for their stuff and I had to buy a new one.

It is very very hard to not be bitter about that, and I didn't talk to my parents for years after I moved out. My situation is a little extreme, but not all that unique.

[itsannalee]

Mostly jealousy, because they don’t get the same treatment from their parents. It not only happens on girl, but in general. People who more independent wouldn’t like if they see others who still get financially support from their parents.
Mostly they will say that being independent is a proud achievement, and mocking people who get financially support from family. But deep in their hearts, they feel jealous.

[Asker]

Yes, I totally agree

[ManOnFire]

@itsannalee There is no jealousy in it. Men hate girls who have always had their parents support them because girls like that often grow up spoiled and believing that the world should always be given to them. And because of it they tend to treat men like shit in relationships because they have the same expectation of him that they have always had with their parents: give to me.

On top of it they tend to be less developed in their personal growth in life because they haven't ever had the challenge of taking care of themselves or becoming a better stronger person.

[itsannalee]

You just jealous.

[ManOnFire]

@itsannalee You didn't read the whole thing that fast. Women believe men are or SHOULD be jealous of them for everything, not realizing that there are shitty things about their own gender (women) that men don't like and talk about it.

[Anonymous]

I don't care what anyone does to get by in this day and age, everything is upside-down. I don't even care during normal times, that's their business and I don't know everything that's behind it.

[Summeroflove]

Maybe they feel like that woman will use him? It depends on the situation but I guess it’s better then using him for money right.

All men are different as for me I see things on a case by case basis. It depends on why they’re supporting her. If I feel she’s using her parents though it’s safe to assume she’ll do the same to me.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 are you serious? So to you women are the ONLY gender that is allowed to do this? Because if a young man asked this your gender would make him feel as small as can be.

After 18 legally everyone is an adult. That doesn't mean your expected to have life figured out. But it is looked down on if your aren't at least making strides in that direction. And becoming self sufficient is at the center of that.

by the way, I'm not judging just answering your question. Everyone's situation is unique. And I wouldn't judge someone on this without understanding the why of it.

[Asker]

It goes both ways. I didn’t target a specific gender and make it seem as if this only happens to them. I asked one group and if I were to ask both I would’ve. But I understand your points

[Billlewis]

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[noohair]

Most guys don't get that treatment. And they think that you will be spoiled by Daddy and that he will never feel that you would be satisfied with what he can provide.

[Anonymous]

You’re 18. No big deal if your parents support you.

[Asker]

It’s not that. I’m mainly talking about girls older than me, like 20-30 who still have their parents paying for everything. Men just seem to dislike it and always use a term “daddy’s money” to hate on them. I don’t get what the issue is

[Opinion Owner]

Jealousy. Although usually it is daddy so they’re telling the truth.

[Asker]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

You realize that almost all 18 year old girls are financially supported by their parents, and almost all guys don't judge them for it, right?

[Asker]

I wasn’t talking about me. I’m talking about the 20-30 year old girls. Nobody judges 18 year olds

[Opinion Owner]

You're asking why people judge people who are financially supported by their parents at age 30? I'd say women judge men for that a whole hell of a lot more than men judge women for it. And they should. By that age someone should have their shit together.

[Asker]

But why judge? That’s none of your business

[Opinion Owner]

You're asking people not to judge, which is never going to happen. It's human nature to judge others for things someone perceives as negative.

And stop trying to make this about gender. It's not. people judge men for the same thing. Lose the female victim complex.

[Asker]

LMAOOOO

[Asker]

“Stop trying to make this about gender” are you stupid or did you forget the name of this app is called “girls ask guys”.

[Opinion Owner]

Grow up little girl.

[Asker]

Funny coming from you

[jahaims]

That isn't a male trait. You just interact with losers.

[LiamJHayden]

I wouldn't. My parents and grandparents gave me a great head start in life.

[Walksbehindtherows]

This is not true, I personally want to marry a rich chick and become rich.

[Anonymous]

I'm not aware that I did. Don't MOST parents financially support their kids?

[verified]

Probably cause they didn't get the same treatment

[RavVid]

What makes you think that?

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'm sure they don't.

[InvalidUsername422]

Sounds like they're jealous or offended

[Anonymous]

They want an independent woman

[ChicoFromThe305]

They do?