If most relationships in your 20s end, why do guys judge women who are single mothers?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Well many people who blindly judge regardless of the situation are people who are projecting. It’s not all guys but there are people who have a mess in their own lives as well as are ashamed of the choices they have made, so they deflect as well as project on other people.

I think single mothers are a case by case basis that being said a woman whose just sleeping around getting knocked up I feel bad for the kid more then I do the mother (or the men for that matter knocking her up). If she’s made some bad choices but is taking personal accountability then sure she isn’t perfect but she’s better then people who just double down and never see anything wrong with what they do.

If a woman is raped and has a child then that’s not her fault. Also women who are in marriages that either got divorced or widowed.

Now divorce matters if she’s the one who cheated, was abusive, got married for the wrong reasons. That’s on her but maybe her husband was great at the beginning but he cheated, he turned abusive, he just up and decided to divorce one day maybe over the child.

Now just because a man doesn’t want to date someone with kids doesn't always mean he’s looking down on someone as a person. That’s his choice and there could be good reasons behind it such as he’s not ready to take on the responsibility of children. That’s okay…. At least he isn’t wasting anyones time.

[strateguy632]

Judge can have 2 meanings. A, judge like reject. Reject Because a single ma is ma to a kid, who is responsibility, that he doesn't want.

Or you mean judge for having a kid. I don't judge n most men probably don't. Those who do judge, criticism the carelessness not using protection before marriage.

[avery58]

I guess ones who do just don't want to take on extra responsibilities just to date someone. Which is fair, everyone has a choice. Don't care about the opinions of people you're not compatible with. Wait for the right person for you.

[natured]

Well ignorant people judge, and the sooner you find out the better, so you know yo stay away from such ignorant idiots.

[Kaneki05]

I mean if anything cause abortion exists.
But otherwise I don't really I just don't like kids simples.

[Nikki1989]

No guy should be judging single mothers when the deadbeat fathers ARE MALES.

[Anonymous]

nobody is beyond being judged, especially for their life choices

[jahaims]

You can have a relationship without getting pregnant lmfao

[Anonymous]

Are you serious?😆 Guys are not judging you unless you're giving them reason to do so.

[LiamJHayden]

Which guys and which mothers?

[LiamJHayden]

What I mean is, it is not universal, and those guys often are thinking "never married multiple baby daddies" not a faithful widow or a sweetheart who was cheated on and deceived.

[Walksbehindtherows]

Because that's how it should be

[Asker]

Why is that how it should be?