Do men come back after they wronged a girl?

[Anonymous]

I was dating a guy (31m) for 2 years and it turns out he has an ex fiance who he has a child with who came back into his life and he never told me about her. He tried to leave without telling me and then I found out accidentally without him ever telling me. So at that point instead of confronting him, I backed off and left. I know the situation was messy, and i didn’t want to get hurt. He kept saying he had to tell me something but never did. I went no contact for 3 weeks- and then he reached out and claimed we were tg and that we had to move forward, i just listened to him, but said nothing. I just want some opinions on what y'all think may happen…. When I'm prepared for what may come I do a lot better… when i'm not prepared I don’t know how to navigate. I don’t block people, i let them be. I want to observe. Do y'all think he will reach out or he got the hint to leave?

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl I would not trust that dude to come back into your life again if I was you. Any guy who would try and sneak around behind your back like that, hiding a whole baby mama and kid, is no good. You don't wanna get played again by someone like that.

He only hit you up saying you guys need to "move forward" cause he knows you found out about his lying ass. No way he was actually planning to come clean otherwise. I bet he's just shook you dipped before he could try smoothing it over.

I'd say don't even respond if he reaches back out. You letting him observe that you moved on just fine without him is the best revenge. He'll either get the hint or keep bothering you, either way you don't need that dude stressing your life.

You seem cool as hell, you'll find someone deserving of your time real quick. This clown ain't it, queen. Keep your chin up - you dodged a major bullet getting away from all his sneakiness!

[CuriousHubby]

Yes they always come back cause they don't care they wronged or hurt you. They just want you and don't think of anything they did as ever BAD.

[easymfbrezzy96]

Well seems like he still has strings with the last one? And why did he never tell you about her? If he really cared and wanted stuff to work hw would of

[ManInChains]

Do women come back after they've wronged a guy?

[OtterMan68]

because many women will take them back.