Should a girl get back with a guy if he cheated on her by chasing other girls but he regrets, stopped chasing them and want his first girlfriend back?

[Anonymous]

He claims that he doesn't repeat it and he doesn't want any girl other than his first girlfriend. He wants to restart his love with her after hurting her too deeply by blocking her while chasing other girls. He finally realised that he doesn't want those other girls but only his first girlfriend. He's willing to leave those other girls to get back with his first girlfriend. He claims to be loyal to her again. Should she trust him and get into relationship with him again? Or leave him and not care about him?

[ohsheeT]

Nooooooooooooo. Look you meant this guy he cheated. And I. Guarantee it You still know the whole story. . You were in pain and hurt because of it... you go back to him and your telling him..

everything he did to you in the past. Is ok. I will bet you what ever you want to bet you won't last 6 months. Because he knows what he can get away with
And not get away with because he he know you..


So if you learned anything from it you wouldn't go back with him. If you didn't learn anything. Then go back with him. He will show you again who he really is a then you get to learn it all over again

I llol at it like this if you believe in yourself if you believe in a God. He wants you to become the best you can be.. if you are week in areas of life. He's going to put someone in your life to make you stronger to become better. The lesson you should have learned will help you find the right guy.. not the same one who took so many things from you.

Ok so I believe in everything I just said...

But it's your choice. So I. Going to say just because I believe in a ll the above doesn't mean I'm right.

Because no one can tell you what to do .. this is your life how deep was the hurt and pain last time

I felt it one time in my life. Never again.

[Summeroflove]

You can forgive but you don’t have to let him back in chances are he will do it again and is only coming back because nothing else worked out. It’s what narcissists do they always have backup plans as well as want someone to fall back on.

Maybe he really did come to his senses and genuinely regrets it. That’s between him and God but if you’re not so sure and you kind of lost interest don’t let him back in.

[NoDecision]

The only reason he wants her back is because the one he was chasing shut him down. He will probably do the same thing if he finds another girl he finds more attractive. She would be a fool to take him back after he hurt her. You have maybe heard the old phrase - "Fool me once, shame on you! But fool me twice, then shame on me". 😔 Don't you be the fool.

[Asker]

Funny. It's true

[Anonymous]

Of course she should not accept him. Is she mad?

[NoDecision]

Only if she does. 😅

[MannMitAntworten]

Personally I would have severed ties entirely so they wouldn’t even have been able to reach out for forgiveness. Cheaters cheat again. It is just their nature. Do not indulge them. Better options who do not cheat always exist.

[jahaims]

Only if she is retarded with no self respect

[slatyb]

No, she shouldn't.

[Wise4myage]

No Hell No!

[Asker]

When she can't forget him also, wouldn't it be better if she gets back in a relationship with him as they both aren't willing to leave each other anymore? Don't you feel that they can work out?

[Wise4myage]

Nope, he cheated. She’d be a total fool to take him back.