What should I expect dating an American man?

[Anonymous]

He seems very serious and he also seems to enjoy sex. I am serious too but to me sex is a little sacred.

[OlderAndWiser]

You should expect him to understand and respect your beliefs, and to wait until you are ready for a sexual relationship. And if that is not going to be until you are married, you should tell him relatively soon.

[Asker]

I told him that and he told me its okay. Lets see how it goes

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, it is much easier to give the right verbal response than it is to follow thorough with actions.

[Asker]

... Yes

[Anonymous]

That's a good thing but why are you scared of sex

[Asker]

I feel like he pays more attention when he's touching me and I have religious guilt over sex. We aren't married yet.

[Opinion Owner]

Some guys are just that way. Some people show more affection during sex. You shouldn't feel guilty about having sex and not being married the sex is supposed to be a pleasureful and a joyful

[Asker]

Alright then

[Opinion Owner]

Go and enjoy it

[Opinion Owner]

Has it got better now

[Asker]

No, i ended up blocking him because he kept bringing up sex. He seems to be into modern dating except he picks traditional women. Modern dating gets you divorced most of the times... He's a divorcee

[itsannalee]

If religion is the reason, you should just tell him.
If he wants you he will understand, if he don’t understand, he just wants sex. So just move on.

[Asker]

Thanks frnd ❤️