Help! I think there’s something wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

Every time I talk to a guy and we vibe. After we become official I have a hard time being affectionate with them. I don’t have the will to hug them or kiss them or be intimate with them. But I do like talking to them and going on dates. What’s wrong with me? lol

[SugarSugarplum]

I think most guys go "official" in the hopes that things will get progressively more intimate. If you see going official as a bookend where you don't have to move forward with intimacy anymore, you're going to frustrate a lot of guys.

I speak from America, obviously if you're from someplace like India, traditions and expectations are going to be a lot different.

[Asker]

That is so true I had to explain this to the guy that I’m seeing. He’s telling me that we can’t go backwards all cause I told him to slow down and take things slow. He’s like you’re my girlfriend now why can’t we be intimate. Sir! I just met you a month ago. A title is not going to make me be intimate with you lol

[Nirmroth]

Some just need to build up a more emotional connection before they can be intimiate.

And then ofc you got love languages aswell, seems like "touch" is on the last place in your list.

As you are already official it might frustrate the guy at least it would me when you couldnt even cuddle or make out.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you may have a low libido. Could be a hormone thing.

Consulting an OBGYN might be a good thing to do.

[Anonymous]

women are defective copies bro. Stay single boyz