I met this NBA player last year over Instagram. I'm a regular person and have no idea whyd he would even be interested in me. I start driving 2 hours to see him for like maybe an hour and have sex, he'll invite me to a game but I don't hear from him afterwards as it seems he's constantly at practice or some kind of event such as children charity events and stuff, so I'd go home instead. We barely talked unless it was for me to see him and we'd just have sex. In May I pretty much just made it my last time seeing him as he was leaving a team and being drafted to a new one. Fast forward till recently he hits me up saying he "miss talking to me" and I hit him with well we never really talked it was just sex and he says "let's change that" and offers to take me to Maui for 14 days but only gives me a 2 day notice so I tell him I can't as it's the school year and I have to take my daughter to school. I think he lives in a bubble and doesn't understand I live a normal life and have responsibilities where I can't just run off to Hawaii with him when ever I want. He hits me with " well then you tell me when you can then and I'll take you to Maui.", Now I'm not really sure how to respond and don't want to waste time with him if he just doing it for sex. I'm wondering if I give him a time and date that I won't be taken seriously as it was previously.
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