How long would you stay single for if you decided you want to get into a relationship?

[msss98]

How long do you think it would take you to find a relationship if you wanted one, the key here is want ie you start actively looking and would settle for something.

Im not speaking about the ideal relationship but also not a hook up, someone that you are exclusive with and could stay committed and exclusive with.

[Nikki1989]

I have never had to stay single for long, maybe a few weeks at the most.

[Jennz6]

Forever

[Jennz6]

@msss98🥰
Thank you very much for the MHO

[ohsheeT]

A good relationships hard to find well they're actually really easy to find

But that's the thing is a friendship is a relationship where most people mess up is they'll meet somebody they'll date and then they have sex and they don't understand the meaning of when two energies become one and love their two separate things

What happens is you have sex you make love is a guy who knows what he's doing or if a girl knows what she's doing you can wow that person like never before and that one minute right before you both going to have an orgasm there's clarity you can look at each other in each other's eyes and almost read each other's minds and you're just saying oh my God I love him I love him or I love her I love her because you've never felt anything like that before that is when two energies become one that is not love people get that mixed up every single day they think just because somebody can make them feel that way that's called love it's not that's when people decide oh my God I think I'd really love you because they made them feel that certain way so they get married and somewhere down the road they find out who each other really are and that's when they separate or whatever

But with any relationship it takes time and it also takes commitment you're not going to find that perfect person I don't think maybe but no matter what just with anybody in this world you're going to find the good parts and the bad parts people change people become better and some people don't it's all and how you both can grow together to become one LOL

[Finchie40]

Not really a set time limit , it just depends on the chemistry and connection her and I share together and whether we are on the same page as things , I honestly no longer like to rush into relationship with a girl until we both feel 100 percent sure we both really want to commit to each other. I prefer her and I just to be friends first and then take it from there instead of rushing into things , and not looking at the big picture before fully committing to each other. The females’ I ended up in relationships with were all great in the beginning , but as time went on they would change their minds and become selfish and no longer wanted to follow the boundaries we set together , so we end up broken up. So in my opinion it’s better to really get to know someone first before making the big decision to be committed to each other

[Saramad_Hill]

This is really difficult for me to comprehend, because most of the time I am not actively searching. Dating apps are garbage, at least for me, so those are off the table. I barely meet anyone new at work, so that's off the table. Let's assume I go to a coffee shop daily, I'm not exactly very outgoing and no one's going to walk up to a thirty year old man and flirt with him, so that's also unlikely.

If I put every ounce of effort in my soul into finding a partner, this is what I think it would take. First, I will need to get in better shape. I understand physical attraction isn't always everything but I will not feel confident in myself unless I get just a little better looking.

Second, I'd need to overcome whatever depression keeps me holed up in the house or at work. Maybe even reopen my social media account and see if anyone would fall in love over my memes (unlikely).

I am often used to the dry spells, didn't date until I was twenty due to anxiety and shyness, and only dated about five people since then, with all of them while I was between 20-26.

Honestly, without a miracle, I don't think I could ever pull someone, so I'd give myself three years before calling it impossible. Fortunately I'm really used to not being in relationships, I gain comfort and solace through my friends who are supportive enough in their own way. Do I miss being in relationships? Yes. But I'm a realist, the world is different now, and I honestly am not sure what I even bring to the table besides stable work history and great cuddles. It's easier to just accept being alone and finding fun some other way. Maybe I'll get lucky someday and have someone bolder than I am make the first move again, that's what most of my exes did.

[Zack-Bann]

Been rolling that way my whole life.


I have had relationships but never one that lasted long enough to count as a “phase of my life” ultimately Im still single


I have no intention of settling just to be able to say “I did it” I do want to be with someone I truly desire and who desires me back.


Some days it feels like asking for too much.


But then you hear about how someone made it and you think that could be you someday

[ThinkerShell]

As long as it takes
I did this when i was still single
And when i found the girl i spend too long time getting to know her until i found she's the one and then i did whatever possible to marry her
Needless to say its 7 years she's my wife, she's the warmth of my heart and home.
My first but my pick

[ChicoFromThe305]

If I tried I think I'll increase my chances by a lot but I think there's still a high odd against me because I've got my pickiness and refuse to settle below those boundaries I set for myself, along with the area I'm at, it's not a good mix but I think if I was truly trying I'd look outside my area, maybe even region to assure I've secured someone worthy for a future investment.

[MicahRaine]

It just depends.

I've never been one to rush into a relationship just because I don't want to he single. I've definitely been tempted sometimes (like right now), but I'm a pretty patient person.

[Sevenpointfive]

it wouldn't be a relationship i'd want, but if there was a cash prize for quickest i'd say 30 minutes.

[Jmmmfi4]

FOR ME I COULDN'T FIND ONE IF MY LIFE DEPENDS ON IT

[genericname85]

won't forget my standards. gonna stay single forever if i find nobody that lives up to my standard.

[Staximus]

I don't know dude. I need to get a couple surgeries before I get into a relationship

[SmileyLady]

For as long as it took me to meet the right person for me.

[LiamJHayden]

I could find one in a week. The problem is finding a good one.

[CB-Raido-Time]

I pretty well knew by the time of my last ex now over 38 years ago I would never date again.

[eagle1951]

now at my age forever single

[CB-Raido-Time]

I pretty much knew at the age of 20/21 I would never date again. And now at my age I know I will never date again.

[Nik1hil]

3 month's

[Twalli]

Depends on how long term I'm looking at.

[RedInnocent69]

Um, that’s not really how relationships work.

[justabuddy]

A big chunk of my life has been single

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

About a week

[paledreams]

Weeks to months

[kaucky1]

As soon as possible