Why do guys who sleep around when encontering a woman who is not promiscuous refer to her as "loser, etc". I mean between the two - he's the loser?

[Anonymous]

Where I live cheating, multiple partners, etc. is NOT uncommon. It's a very working / low class / welfare town. I wasn't born here, I just work here as hospital staff (medical professional).

Anyway I was talking with one guy - medical - doesn't work at hospital but we've same profession --- he works with one of my own colleagues so we chat / coffee --- and when I let it out I'm not promiscuous, only been with a very few guys his response was "loser".

And I'm like okay... that's nice, stopped talking to him. We'd only gone on one coffee "date".

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh sis, that dude sounds like a total tool! Calling you a "loser" just because you don't sleep around? What a joke. He's the loser for acting like female attention and hookups define his self-worth.

Some guys just can't handle it when they meet a classy girl who values herself more than that. Makes them insecure cause you're not desperate for their lame attempts at seduction. Pay him no mind - his trash opinion says way more about him than you.

It's a good thing you cut him off, you don't need that judgmental energy bringing you down. Being selective with who you share intimacy with is nothing to be ashamed of. In fact, it shows you respect yourself too much to just give it away freely. These hoes will never understand that kind of self-respect.

Any dude bothered by your choices isn't worth your time. You do you, girl! Keep your chin up, Mr. Right won't care how many nothings you've been with. He'll like you for who you are inside - caring, smart and beautiful. Don't change yourself just to appease insecure boys. Your worth isn't defined by them!

[SweetPi]

Cause they are jealous and people hate others that are not like them. He sees you as to good for him and gets instantly bitter!

Same when people ask me out to cheat or have a fling and get turned down they get bitter and hate ful

Honestly poeple can never see who they are just what others are. He won't ever see himself in a bad light. So he has to hate you for ruining his picture of justice!

I just keep my mouth shut usually when people talk about hook up culture and brag every one should sleep around. Tired of the reactions and it won't change any ones minds..