Why do women get with guys who dress like drug dealers and act with zero personality and reject guys who are upper class to that bloke?

[Anonymous]

Like my mates saw a guy that they met in the past who has a reputation for acting hard, dresses like your local dealer and doesn't really do jk that well yet the girl his with is extremely attractive in appearance and is with him now. By that I mean she is naturally attractive like the only aspects she's had done that aren't would be her eyebrows you can't tell she had them professionally done. He is not a huge bloke and doesn't have any aspects to brag about if he wanted to like 💪 . Why would she have chosen him? He knows his extremely lucky to have her, his mentioned it in her post multiple times. Just wanted to know a woman or guys perspective? They do have a thing in common which are motor bikes but really that can't be the only reason.

[_Maya_]

I suppose some women like that look or attitude of a guy. Different strokes for different folks as they say. I don't find that appealing but that is just me. I would not be attracted to that sort of person. I see it those types where I bartend. Not appealing to me at all. Someone will find that appealing though. I think it is going to be a fair minority that does.

[Asker]

But what is it about those guys that appeal to women like that? Surely there is a reason.

[_Maya_]

I haven't the slightest clue because I do not find those guys appealing at all.

[Asker]

Why would say it's a minority of women or just small groups in certain areas of the world.

[_Maya_]

Just my own observation. I bartend so I see all types. I see less girls go after those types of guys. Again this is just from what I see. Don't know other areas of the world.

[inhua]

drug dealers are bad boys. bad boys are more attractive than gentlemen

[Asker]

Why do women think that? Gentlemen have confidence, assertiveness etc... within their personality so why are they beneath them?

[inhua]

you can't rationalize with women's emotions

but even if a gentleman has confidence and assertiveness, physical attraction overrides this greatly

human beings are a visual species, our eyesight is our strongest sense for a reason and far too often do men underestimate the importance of looks women put on men

a gentleman who looks like Henry Cavill is fine. a gentleman who looks like Michael Cera is asking to be taken advantage of

a lot of these bad boys attract women with their good looks and their "fuck society" attitude

[Asker]

He doesn't have good looks his facial hair doesn't even connect 😂

[inhua]

any picture of him by any chance?

[Asker]

How do you show pictures on here?

[inhua]

not sure about in the comments but you post them in questions and takes

[Asker]

I can't edit the post now can you do it directly to a user?

[Asker]

I've sent a message to you directly