What does a woman need do to be called a girlfriend by a guy and meet his family?

[Sugar100]

I don’t drink 🚱

I don’t smoke 🚭

I don’t party 🎉 or go to clubs

I’m family oriented

I like to cook & clean 🧽

I dress elegant & conservative

im romantic & supportive

i want 3-4 babies 👶

I do all these things & I cannot get. A first boyfriend an almsot 30. No one values me, no one desires next to me daily , no guy desires do life with me, go to all stores errands with me, pics of us all over the walls, live with me. No guy wants this life with me. I’m alone 24/7. No guy is proud call me his girlfriend and tell his family he has a new girlfriend. 😞

[Miristheiss]

There are tons of simps out there who will never have standards. To all the wise, strong men with standards... there are probably 10-20% of western women worthy of being girlfriend's. Most drug taking, promiscuous, tattoo covered, sexy pics on line, social media obsessed, clubbing, drinking, "don't need a man", entitled, girl that is a 5 but thinks she deserves a millionaire stud 10, wants the stability of a relationship and a man to provide everything while she gets to go act single some of the time... etc. are not girlfriend material. Someone to commit to or marry? Not a lot of them in the west. Toxic feminism and sexual revolution, women are princesses entitled to all, career is your most important goal and individualism trumps family doctrine has brain rotted most modern women. Good women like a lot of people's grandmother don't exist much anymore.

[razelove]

You might want to hurry up with those babies. You aren't getting younger, and I seem to remember some years ago you had a serious boyfriend. That would have been the time, when you were younger. For men and women there's more and more bullshit with less choices in dating as you get older.

Forget about red pill stuff and think most simply. All the best options have chosen the other best options and paired up already.

[Sugar100]

How I’ll have babies if no guy wants be my boyfriend and give me a baby make me pregnant? I’m trying to hurry up.

[Sugar100]

No I never had a serious boyfriend, I dated one guy many years I thought he was my boyfriend but no he was a fuckbot that wasted my time. He never wanted me have baby. 😞 only once we kinda had an accident but he forced me to swallow a plan b pill cuz he was talking shit to me n I was crying cuz he don’t make me pregnant. Or else I would of been a single mom and at that time I wasn’t ready be single mom broke. 😔

[Abbycado]

I do drink

I don’t smoke

I do party or go to clubs

I’m family oriented

I don't like to cook & clean but will.

I dress in clothes

im romantic & supportive

I have a boyfriend so there is the blueprint, apparently.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Given your description, you manifest yourself as very conservative, so you need guys with very conservative tastes. I would recommend dating in United Arab Emirates or Chechnya. If United Arab Emirates seems too far or too brown, then Florida seems like a good start.

More precisely, look for red caps, they are easy to spot:

Problem solved

[Juxtapose]

"or too brown" haha what the fuck 😂

She's not a racist she's just lonely.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@Juxtapose I just try to cover many cases beforehand, it saves time for dating 😏

[DJB72]

Stop looking. If you come across as desperate it's off-putting. Leave home and get happy with being yourself. That's actually attractive to guys.

[Sugar100]

Even when I do that no guy is asking to be my boyfriend or date me

[DJB72]

Join a church. Seriously.

[Juxtapose]

You're putting out too much nervous energy. Try to dial it down and be relaxing to be around. Be in serenity within yourself and look for men you like then.

[Sugar100]

Even when I do my own thing and never look, no guy is asking to be his girlfriend and chasingme.

[Sugar100]

Doing my own thing doesn’t make men see me as the one. Nothing works.

[Juxtapose]

Have you tried going out in public to bars or a church?

[Sugar100]

It’ll be hard comitt to a church guy that I don’t like/love. It’ll be a Mariage with one sided love. Only guy will like me and I won’t I’ll just be using him for title of wife meet family and ring. But no love. Texting , everything will be forced.

[Jennz6]

Are you still a virgin?

[Sugar100]

Why that matters?

[Jennz6]

Doesn’t matter really