Is it true that you have to kiss some frogs (metaphorically) before you find your prince/princess?

[Anonymous]

IT'S TRUE

IT'S NOT TRUE

DON'T KNOW

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

In the sense of developing a better understanding and enjoyment in relationships, then yes, this is how I experience life. There are many princesses though, unlike a popular Nintendo belief, they are many, in different castles. Don't get me wrong though, I didn't rescue them, and they didn't rescue me. They aren't really princesses either, as I'm not really a prince.

God, I'm not even Italian.

[LiamJHayden]

Not necessarily, but I know I've been the frog that did not change into a prince for several.

[Asker]

Wow brutal honesty there.

[Anonymous]

This is absolutely true!

I think you can feel a person's emotions for you through kissing.

I've kissed a passionate prince and a dead frog. The dead frog was most likely only after one thing because it felt like he literally had no soul.. I'm 90% sure he was a phycopath. 😂

[Nikki1989]

Frogs? Could be worse.

[Asker]

No kink-shaming.

[AviatorTom]

Yep... you meet, and date, several people until you find the one you'd like to spend a long time with.

[Nirmroth]

I think it is, my past rls have made it clear to me what I want in a partner and what I won't tolerate anymore etc.

Even if it ended shitty or good every one was a valuable experience.

This goes as far as that I be hesitant to date a girl that has never been in a rl before.

[PeachyPie93]

Not really.. just chill with people for months platonically then you never have to kiss the shitty ones lol

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

While it improves the odds in theory, It's just theory, my own experience from 2 decades back prove it lol

[PeachyPie93]

@Maybe_Maybe_not LOL well from my own experiences I rather have not loved and lost.. then to have loved and lost :P Guys can pretend to be interested for months then change their personality towards you completely. So I rather it stay that way and not have them touch me, then to let them touch me and they be a dick or ditch me.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Aside from illnesses, personality change is psychologically impossible to me hehe, what I think may happen is wrong evaluation of people's personality, it's not easy after all to evaluate that correctly, it requires a lot of practice ;)

[PeachyPie93]

@Maybe_Maybe_not 😒

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

What did I say? 😆

[PeachyPie93]

@Maybe_Maybe_not Everything you say annoys me...
Like you are always trying to make my opinions invalid.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

We have a very different life story when it comes to romance, so interpretations/conclusions differ a lot I guess... Maybe too much then

[PeachyPie93]

@Maybe_Maybe_not Yes I think that is true.. we have different love styles and different out looks on life. Just because I think a certain way that is different to how you go about romance does not mean I am wrong but it always seems you want to say I am.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

It does not mean you are wrong, no, because experience is never wrong, conclusions may be, not experience itself. It's... Well, it could be me trying to "course correct" your story in a way, at least I can see, somewhere within, why I would want to do that. Obviously, it cannot work like that, but that is the theory, in practice I may have difficulties registering what I say. Yep.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Let's call this my clumsy interference and leave it like that?

[ManInChains]

Don't have to. But people think they just have to be in a relationship every second of their life. I don't work that way

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I would say no. You don't have to kiss anybody who you don't want to.

[WhitneySnow]

Yes! And some that aren’t frogs but it just didn’t work out.

[Drumlin2001]

The chances of the first person you date being the one and you being able to maintain that relationship are very slim. A little experience with different partners does set you up for a better relationship

[OddBeMe]

Call dating what you like. I call it seeing a person you like until you grow apart. Those who you end up with are just a person you never grew apart from.

[Babygirl_S]

They didn’t seem to be frogs when I kissed them but now they appear to be.

[jojouzumaki]

I guess it is, same goes to men… they have been kissed by so called princesses but they didn’t changed them to become a Man.

[Crazzyyworld]

Some con men are presumably rich in their thought and garbages will go for anything

[Anonymous]

For a Guy it might be true, But not for a Girl.

[Anonymous]

Yes, if you are a girl. No, if you are a guy.

[RingOfFire]

One woman's frog is another woman's Prince.

[Coletteeee]

wtf is that picture?

[exitseven]

It is true.