Why would a guy not be bothered whether he saw you or not?

I went on a date with a guy and after he’d only ever ask me to go over to his house and I told him that it made me feel like he was using me for sex which he denied.

It’s been back and forth since as he kept asking me to go over and I kept saying no as I didn’t want to be treat like a fuck buddy. He also didn’t want to date me if I was seeing other men but was using tinder himself.

He’d also ask to take me out for drinks and food on the day of but I’m never just free on the day, so I asked to see him Sunday to which he said “if you come then sweet, if not then I’m not concerned either way” as he was “sick of going back and forth”.

It’s made me feel abit crap tbh.

Why would a guy not be bothered whether he saw you or not?
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