Is better to wait and work for a handsome attractive well off man instead of just settling for an average good guy and making it work?

[Anonymous]

I don’t like dating average guys. I don’t like dating guys who won’t make grand gestures. I don’t like dating average or below average looking men. I don’t like dating short men. I don’t like dating broke men. I don’t like dating boring men. I what a boyfriend like anyone else but not enough to settle for a man that I won’t have a great love story with or a man that won’t understand me or that I dislike.

Before I get replies like “what do you bring to the table” actually a lot but in the mean time while I wait I going to keep improving myself, my career, my looks, intelligence, my skills and hobbies etc of course so me and my future partner are matched. Do you agree that waiting and working for the right man of your dreams is better than just choosing a “good” man (average joe who’s nice enough) and making it work?

[lightbulb27]

you have expectations around chivalry, class, style and looks. Probably matters how he smells, dresses, and how he treats women.

you might as well just go to France or such place where men are trained this way... moreso... and find someone. no guarantees. I've seen that in usa, but not typical.

else you are just going to be disappointed in what you've chosen and frustrated trying to train him.

or find Jesus and get rid of your expectations and be happy with whom shows up.

your call...

[Asker]

A trip to France sounds nice.

[NamerOfStars]

Definitively not- if you insist on a handsome, attractive, well-off man (with or without commas), you're going to competing with the vast majority of women for him. Waiting isn't going to make it happen; you have to go out and GET him.

[Staximus]

If you're looking for the guy who all the women want , you're going to have to compete against all those women for his attention.

[Asker]

Not competition if you put yourself on the same level 🤷‍♀️

[DrPepper12]

Sure it's great and desirable!

BUT you sound shallow and high maintenance tbh. Dating isn't a perfect process.

[Anonymous]

It makes sense in your early 20s. But as you get older and less hot, you want to lock something down.

[Asker]

I doubt it would take that long. I’m at a point where I feel confident near becoming match with the men I want

[Opinion Owner]

Nice!

[ChicoFromThe305]

Whatever floats your boat