Im 32 is it bad that I want a man that is financially stable and well-off?

[Anonymous]

I can see young girls saying they want older men providing them and it's not a turn off...

So I'm 32 and well... what can I say I'm just a average 32 year old female with average looks. But I like older men and want to be loved the way I see younger women being loved.

[Sunssong]

I say get the money yourself but if you want a man like that then you have to offer him something that matches that. The only thing you can offer him like that is to build your personality so high that it is a match. But it would be so much easier to just get the money yourself.

[kylee2437]

Nope personally I think wanting a financially stable partner is one of the most important aspects of dating, I don’t know why people downplay the idea. You have to put up with so much of you are personally financially stable yourself and your partner is always tripping up on their irresponsible spending/ not being able to make ends meet.

[kylee2437]

If you are *

[Sunssong]

Because men don't think that way. At least I don't. I think all the responsibility is on me. Plus look at the stats. Most people are not doing well with money. You're just making it even harder when you could just go get the money yourself.

[kylee2437]

@sussong that sounds like a you problem if you don’t have your standards high enough to want someone that can care for themselves. I couldn’t imagine/picture myself spending my time fully relying on a man / a man needing to fully rely on me to make ends meet.

[BourbonAndBacon]

I would say that seems normal but a an older man with some money in the bank and good credit has lots of options.

[genericname85]

well. that means you're superficial and you care about money more than character. so if someone calls you out on being that, you should just say yes.

[Anonymous]

It could be. Who doesn't want to be taken care of? I want to be taken care of!😆 Life just doesn't work that way is all. There's a price to be paid for everything. What we don't know based on you post is how realistic you are about this.

[Emanon25]

Not at all, everyone is looking for a stable life to be happy.

[FunkyMonkee]

It is if that's your only requirement.

[jahaims]

You want what you can't have like most people

[Alex8736]

Normal