I'm a 32 year old woman am I too old to find a good man to marry?

Question

I keep hearing online men want a woman who is in her prime about 18-24. And after 30 she's too old and "hit the wall". By the way I have no children either.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Not at all , Age is really just a number , when people hold age as a deciding factor , they are only limiting themselves from meeting someone that actually might be amazing to them , I dated girls that were younger and older than me, so it all comes down to chemistry and connection and attraction , if I see a beautiful girl that catches my eye , her age isn’t the first thing on my mind , getting to know her is the first thing on my mind to see if we connect well and we have things in common , Of she is continuing a conversation with me and we start flirting with each other then that’s all the really matters , the topic of age might come up later in the conversation and when it does , and I find out we have a big gap in age , I am not automatically going to hate her and tell her good bye , my intentions is to keep getting to know her and possibly hook up with her and keep continuing to see each other , So do t really hold age as a deciding factor , I know most girl’s like older guys , so there are plenty of older guys that would love to be with a 32 year old girl , so do t seek yourself short because of your age , it really doesn’t mean shit , just find a guy that has a lot in common with you and finds you attractive

razelove · Accepted Answer

Everyone has preferences. For a lot of guys being our age but desiring the college age women is their fantasy, that's an uphill battle. Hence the whole, you need to be a "high value male" mindset. Along with the other side which is telling women they aren't interested in that they aren't desirable.

I don't think you'll find too many issues finding someone to date, just that as we get older we have more baggage and have to make more compromises there. It isn't necessarily body count or anything like that. It could be debt, the time and investment in a career, family, so on and so forth. Going both ways

Of course it's simpler to have someone young who is a "blank slate"(also with very little to have in common). My belief is that relationships go both ways though, the attraction, compromises, effort and attention to make them work.

Just keep putting yourself out there, be clear on your hard and soft limits, dating can suck, but something will break :)

Adaeva · Accepted Answer

Unless the man is wealthy or the girl is a big girl, very few 18-24 year old women are interested in men in their mid to upper 30's or above. With that being the case, men that you would be interested in have to settle for who they can get. Therefore, depending on your looks and other factors, there are men in their mid 30's and above that would marry you.

However, at that age, they are more aware of how bias the laws and family courts are so they are less likely to get married, but the difference is not great. In any event you choices are not near as good as when you were ten years younger because many of the guys you rejected prior to age 25, no longer want you.

Certainly, there are nice men that will marry you provided you don't have unrealistic standards. However, what I suspect is that the men you want will not marry you because they can do better and that you reject as not acceptable the men that would marry you.

sunflower00 · Accepted Answer

You are not old at all! Most people who say the 18 - 24 thing are usually people who spend all of their time online, don’t speak to women in real life and certainly don’t get girls. Never ever listen to what people say on GAG etc. as it’s mainly full of incels and people with very abnormal beliefs honestly

Summeroflove · Answer

Look now. You’re still in child bearing years anyways. Yes I believe you can find love. Absolutely!

Sure. Not all guys will be into you and that’s fine. Because you’re looking for the one. You’re looking for the one whose made for you.

Don’t take it personal if a guy just respectfully doesn’t want to be with you. Because not everyone will. The same as I’m sure there is guys you would reject

OlderAndWiser · Answer

My fiancée is 59 years old and she found a decent guy to marry.

Avicenna · Answer

Of course you aren't too old. And not having kids is a huge advantage. I would advise you to start looking for a guy now, though.

HighValue · Answer

Good high quality men that want yo create/raise a family are often likely to avoid women past 30. If they date someone for a year, then live together for a year, if they try to have a kid together she would be 33 minimum if they were dating since she was 30. One year to recover then have a second by 35 which is the age limit to be likely to have a healthy kid if a pregnancy was successful at all.

Regardless of people's wishful thinking, biology matters. Women past 35 have less than 1% chance of ever having a healthy kid. For every one woman that can, there is nearly 200 that can't.

If you want healthy kids, I'd suggest making that your priority in life before it is too late.

Me personally, a high quality very rare man would not consider a woman past 30.

bobalife · Answer

Lol you’re 32. I’M 32! 😂 we are not old, girl. It’s disappointing and concerning thinking of the small percentage of good candidates as potentials in our age group. However, don’t listen to that negative talk. What matter is valuing yourself, working on yourself, and living your best life, so you have something good to offer for the right person and you give yourself the right type of love that you want/need. Therefore, when/if the right person found you, then go for it.

warsevf · Answer

The practical reason is the kids I think.

I am 29 and i am worried for the same reason as a guy. I am immature and also can't approach. I have good job but i have no wit to live in this world

It will take a while before I finally start dating.

The point i am trying to make is to hang in there.

No one knows, age is a concept which exists to compare yourself to your peers. In practical sense it works. But finding someone is not practical, isn't it. Its unpredictable

WindAtMyBack · Answer

You probably want a man, not an immature child. Guys who say nonsense like "18-24" is prime are too young and immature to know what the heck they are talking about.

"I keep hearing online"

Forget about online. Get out in the real world with people who don't waste their lives away online. Meet people and have some fun with people who have a life.

EricSummer · Answer

You are not too old to find a good man. However, it can help not to keep your own age bracket too narrow for that man. With a man your age you can have the trouble that he is in no hurry to marry and you do have younger competition. It may balance better with a guy ten years older.
Of course, the main challenge remains to find a good man, not just any man, but I suppose that counts for all ages.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Of course not!! I didn't get together with my future ex-fiance until we were both 34. I had just turned 34 a month before we met, she was a few months shy of 35. We had a GREAT time together for most of the 10 years we were together!!
I'd still be interested in someone your age!

Reaper1985 · Answer

really depends on your morals, your overall health and your personality as to weather you'll find a partner to settle down with and maybe have children with.

however helps to have a low body count these days if your legit about wanting something long term. the higher a persons body count is the harder time they have when trying to pair bond regardless of gender.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have known women in their 60s that have married. Don't listen to idiots online with their "hit the wall" nonsense.

Anonymous · Answer

I am 30 years old but unmarried. Age doesnot matter. When it is destined and planned ny God it will happen. I have seen many women get married even after 30 and 40. And they have got good companions too. All these are God's decisions. Believe in him and pray to him. He must have written something good in your destiny. do not give up.

Haha456 · Answer

you likely will be attracting a lot of men in their 40-50s. Just because an old guy wants a woman 18-24, it does not mean he can get her. these women have plenty of options, they don't have to go for old aging men

FictionalCharacter · Answer

You’re never too old to marry someone. But from my online experiences, guys didn’t care about my age. They cared more about how much money I was earning and if I had a job. But in the end, I wasn’t valuable to them.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

That's pure BS. You still have plenty of primetime in your life yet. I think being fit and healthy has a lot to do with how long couples can still have kids these days. It has extended this period tremendously.

Anonymous · Answer

Not necessarily. The single biggest obstacle that older women have (I don’t consider you old, I mean not in their 20s) is KIDS.

We don’t want anything to do with that. I mean some men do. Very few. Very very few. But that is just a big big deal.

stepyo99 · Answer

You aren't getting any younger. More than a decade of your child-bearing years are behind you and not many are left. Why did you wait this long before suddenly deciding now you want a good man to marry at 32?

lightbulb27 · Answer

Total BS, I know some married mid to upper 30's, I know women in 30's dating, I know people in 40's and 50's get married.

Anemone978 · Answer

Not too old.. date lots of dudes you will eventually find your match..  Stop believing clowns on the internet they are the ones most likely to end up alone 🤣

MementoMori777 · Answer

You not having children definitely higher your chances, get out there more, I'm sure you'll find somebody, it's not going to happen hovering around here, I'm sure we can both agree on that 😆

Aniih · Answer

Sweetheart not at all. From my experience they don't even care if you're already married or with kids... I guess it depends on your context and where you're looking for it.

Jazzy54 · Answer

You’re definitely not old. As you can see, I’m a year older than you, but I’m in the same situation. Screw what the statistics say. Keep putting yourself out there and keep hope alive. 😊❤️

JustMeL120 · Answer

Its a good age many celebrities marry at that age and are still hot. So why not average people.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Your age of 32 is a good age. You have some life experience under your belt and I think it would be an attractive age if I were say, under 40.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

The wall only applies to having children without high risk of birth defects. I don't want kids, so that wall is moot to me.

jshm2 · Answer

No. It's not a matter of age, but finding people to relate to enough to form a relationship with. That is what a marriage essentially is.

ColHathi · Answer

Depends on your definition of "good" is. If you think the men that are saying stupid shit like that are good, then yes. Otherwise I'd say no.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

You are never too old to find someone to marry.

art84 · Answer

You have to look hard to find a good man as you get older. Not all guys would find a 32 years old woman attractive though don't let that bother you.

godslovelybaby · Answer

what the hell, u should spread energy that you always 18))) nope really age is nothing i m same age as uy husband younger on 10 years and its my not first marriage )) so f** stereotips and live your best life!

Miristheiss · Answer

True. 18-24 was your get married, find a man prime. Why did you wait?

Jersey2 · Answer

It depends on what you think a good man is. They are out there but they are quiet guys, homebodies who aren’t you stereotypical cool guy.

Anonymous · Answer

To find a good regular man… no probably not too late. To find a man whose income and social status is high , whose also highly educated, and very attractive with no kids…. that’s a high bar, maybe not that.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Well, age 32 sounds good… My sister gave birth at age 32 with my niece.

Likes2drive · Answer

Maybe guys in your age group but I’m still looking but I already had kids so I’m not looking for more

Christoff92 · Answer

No. A friend of mines got married almost 2 years ago at the age of 49. Can marry at any age you want. Don't let age Stereotyping bring you down 😉

TheFlak38 · Answer

You have already been replaced by the thousands of fresh young sluts. Single women over 30 are damaged goods.

Massageman · Answer

C'mon- heaven's no! Women don't hit their sexual peak until 35-36.

Anonymous · Answer

No. But the road is going only going to go uphill from here as age. You want to snag a guy before he's seen to much of what you women are capable of. Grab him while he still young and stupid.

Twalli · Answer

I met my girlfriend when she was 32. Neither of us want children so age isn't really a concern. Wanting someone young is because you want kids.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

To marry? Too old for the most desirable men. But just some guy who is nice... no. Also depends on how attractive you are.

Anonymous · Answer

No you are not too old. Good men marry good women of that age.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

That depends on a lot of things. What's your relationship history?

Sparkie460 · Answer

You are never too old to find a good person to settle down with.

OddBeMe · Answer

No, but not gonna lie, more you wait the worse it gets.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

You still have a couple of years to be a "buzzer beater".

Anonymous · Answer

I meet my wife at the ripe old age of 39. I'm now in my 60s, now what does that tell you

Buttajah · Answer

Unfortunately, online men don't necessarily speak for the countless good men abroad.

jimmy2 · Answer

Oh my honey you are not come to me then you are a Spring chick

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, you are bound to be an old spinster. Give it up now.

Anonymous · Answer

Depends. Did you spend your teens and 20’s racking up body count and partying.

slatyb · Answer

My wife found one when she was older than you.

Rangers · Answer

No, not at all. You're approaching your prime!

Andres77 · Answer

not at all. you're still in ur prime.

Anonymous · Answer

No you're not too old to me.

AydenHazor · Answer

You are not too old to find a good man to marry

mommymommymommy · Answer

Never too late

zagor · Answer

LOL no. Unless you think you are.

Chthou95 · Answer

What were you doing in your twenties?

Stevefiveo · Answer

No, you're never too old.

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