Should I go out with an attractive man of 50?

[Sparklight]

A 50 year old attractive man asked me out. Should I go or is he too old.

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I am 32, so there is a 18 year difference.

[ohsheeT]

Well, you're the only person that can answer that because just because he's 50 doesn't mean that he's 50. Might look 50. You might have 50 birthday cakes. But the person on the inside if he's happy if he's taking care himself he could be forty five on the inside

That's why you need to meet him. Find out who he is on the inside If he has a beautiful heart is this kind If he's healthy if he's happy go forward , don't hold yourself Back He's not asking for a commitment he's asking for a date

[fish5505_87]

Yes!! Ok, I'm married and over 50, but if I was single and the same age, I would want you to say yes. All hypothetical, of course!

[Sparklight]

@fish5505_87 thank you for answering.

[fish5505_87]

Good Luck!

[Babebytheshore85]

At 32 you can't think this out on your own? Girl you shouldn't be dating let alone outside. Where are your brain cells?

[Sparklight]

@babebytheshore85 I guess I had q blonde Moment. LOL. No seriously though, I haven't dated anybody with this much age difference. I just needed some validation.

[Nikki1989]

Sure, he is older, so it's all good. It is the younger men you should avoid.

[Summeroflove]

Just try a date see how things go. That’s why you go on a date to see if you’re compatible. Never know unless you try just take things slow.

If you’re unsure I say just go for it. Worst case is it doesn’t work.

[alice55]

I think it's too old but do what you want, personally I would only go out with men my age

[Sparklight]

@alice55 ok. Thanks. That is what I was wanting was an honest opinion.

[alice55]

You're welcome :)
To be honest with men in their 5Os I would be careful either they're cheating on their wife either they're divorcee and thus hold bad thought about women so they're not the best to be with generally

[Sparklight]

@alice55 I never considered that. Thanks.

[alice55]

You're welcome :)

[notadumblonde]

Hard to see how one date could go wrong

I would just ask myself do we have anything in common given our age difference

[WhitneySnow]

Go for it. If you think he’s attractive, don’t let the age gap stop you.

[OneViewpoint]

That's a you and him decision. "Society" has all sorts of expectations generated by all sorts of idiots. Choose if you want to let other people make your life decisions for you.

[sage2021]

Yes!! Go girl!!❣️ Have a blast and then tell us about it!! 🙂

[Sparklight]

@sage2021 ah. Thank you so much.

[Sparklight]

@sage2021 I accepted the date, so I suppose that is a start.

[sage2021]

@Sparklight
I'm so happy for you❣️ The hardest part about dating is meeting someone and you did it!! YAY!! 🤚🏻 High five!
I can't wait to hear the details. If you would like to send me a private message or as they say on here DM me, that might be better so that not everyone has to know.
He's at a terrific age and so are you.
Dating someone new is so exciting!! Just don't order the spaghetti 🍝 and you should be fine! 😅🫡
(That was some Mother's advice 🙂)

[Anonymous]

Well he's attractive, that's what's really important.😆

[ProbablyClueless]

If you can have fun together and no one is dating or married to anyone else; why not?

[WonderingManII]

I think the age difference kinda stretches it. That's just me.

[Danny_dan92]

If you’re ok with everything that comes with that, go for it

[itsannalee]

If you want to, go for it.
You both adults

[Anonymous]

Wayyyy too old for you.

[strateguy632]

If you like him yes as bobby said here.

[zagor]

If you're over 30 I think it would be OK.

[BobbyLee789]

If you like him, than I would

[Fury_storm]

yes because you are also old

[Robert1971]

Try it. Might be good for you.

[Mr1derful]

Not too old

[wkhan_87]

It's totally on you