A few years ago, I dated an attractive woman in her late 20s who had lived alone in NYC for several years. She claimed she was a virgin. Truth or lie?

[debtfree_oneyear]

[jazzy34]

It may come as a surprise to you, but there are women out there (myself included) who remain a virgin into their l20s, 30s, etc. Rare? Yes. Does it happen? Also yes. Their reasons are their business and there’s nothing wrong with it. Not everyone out here is having sex. If you’re seriously skeptical, that’s your problem.

[debtfree_oneyear]

I was a little skeptical. I also thought that if she was telling the truth , that before she had (a) turned down the guys who have asked her or (b) no guy has ever asked her

[jazzy34]

Maybe she’s waiting until marriage and not wanting to give it up to just any guy. Either way, that’s her decision. Take it or leave it.

[GOLDFISH_smile]

I didn't fuck anyone un NYC, so as far as I know yes. She's a virgin.

[MillieMin]

I don't know her... How can I answer this?

[debtfree_oneyear]

You wouldn't know, but to me, it seemed suspicious. Her age, her appearance, and where she was living all made it hard to believe she never slept with anyone

[Abbycado]

How would we know?

[debtfree_oneyear]

You wouldn't know, but to me, it seemed suspicious. Her age, her appearance, and where she was living all made it hard to believe she never slept with anyone

[Abbycado]

Yeah, but all those things mean nothing in terms of sexual choices.

[debtfree_oneyear]

Don't they?

[debtfree_oneyear]

I also thought that if she was telling the truth , did that mean she had (a) turned down the guys who have asked her or (b) no guy has ever asked her?

[Agape93]

Does it even matter?

[debtfree_oneyear]

@Agape93 No, not really. I'm just curious why she told me she was...

[Agape93]

Because she felt comfortable sharing. Period.

[Apple1996]

Only she would know lol