How can women say height and looks don't matter, it's about confidence, if they won't date these men?

They want to blame incels for being incapable of getting laid, it's their attitude and nothing more. Yet they themselves will never date a 5'2 ugly balding man if he's confident. So aren't these women just gaslighting them?
How can women say height and looks don't matter, it's about confidence, if they won't date these men?
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