Are men more relatable to insecurity than women?

[Luopio27]

Think about it. If a woman is called ugly, her feelings get hurt, just like men get their feelings hurt when they are trash talked.

Women consistantly focus on how they look, how they dress, smell and so on. They were make up all the time in public, bras that make their boobs look bigger and so on. All this hard work to feel confident, as pretty as possible.

If there is one thing that girls are famous for not tolerating in a guy that wants to date them, is insecurity. Way too often the confidence criteria is brought up by girls.

If girls didn't feel insecure, why would they need to invest so much time in keeping their bodies atractive with great exercise/diet, fashion on top and faces filled with make up.

When guys try to improve themselves to get to a pretty girls standards of dating, by investing in self development, like Pua courses, they are seen as desperate loners.

It just doesn't seem like girls aprechiate the compassion on the same feeling they themselves feel. So in the sense of accepting insecurity, are women really more forgiving than men?

[ProbablyClueless]

A lot of the reason women are so unforgiving of insecurity in men is precisely because they are insecure about so many things themselves. Women want to feel safe, protected, provided for in their relationships; even if they can materially provide those things for themselves.

By seeing your insecurity, she's not going to feel like she can rely on you to be a source of emotional stability in her in life. People who aren't sources of stability are sources of chaos.

That's going to be true, even if she's the strongest rah rah Feminist girl boss you've ever met.

[Anonymous]

You're right. But supposedly guys do not give a 💩 about women, right? So they play their role as a woman, play your role as a man. Stop focusing on whether or not the like you. Just focus on crushing puss. And then move on to the next one.