How do you approach conflicts in relationships, and how can conflict strengthen a bond?

[Kellyamy]

[Finchie40]

Communication and compromising with each other , if the both of you are yelling at each other , it’s best for the both of you to walk away until you both calm down , so you both can talk normal to each other , without screaming at each other , when someone is screaming or yelling , the other person isn’t really going to listen to you or hear you if you’re screaming and yelling is directed toward them, they aren’t going to listen to what you have to say , because they are going to defend themselves , and prepare themselves to attack if need be . So it’s best to walk away from them and only talk to them when they can speak to you in a mature calm manner , instead of some raging psycho , every time my ex screamed and yelled at me , I ignored her and walked away and said I am not talking to you until you calm the fuck down , if you can’t speak to me in a mature calm manner , I am not going to talk to you at all. Cuz I am not screaming at you , so do not scream at me period , then I walk away , she can give me the silent treatment all she wants , but I am not going to listen to a word she says until she can calm her ass down. If she chooses to leave and stomp out the front door , see ya, don’t come back and don’t let the door hit ya on the ass on the way out. There is no reason to scream and yell at someone if they clearly don’t know what they did wrong , even if they do know what they did wrong , it still doesn’t give you a right to scream and yell at them until they can get a word across to you. People that constantly scream and yell at their partners’ honestly need to go to anger management classes to get themselves help with their anger issues. If not the courts will force you to. My ex had to attend them when I called the cops on her ass for domestic violence , when she was attacking me and throwing shit at me. She wasn’t to happy when the courts made her attend Anger Management classes

[BadApple69]

I approach them head on BUT…. with love and understanding. No harsh words, just listen to the different view point and try to put yourself in your partners shoes.

[andy530]

The conflict isn’t what strengthens the relationship it’s the process of working through the conflict, communicating, validating, and compromise that strengthens the relationship.

[SunnyRS]

Communication.
Just telling each other what they feel and letting it all out.
By sharing how and what we feel we can clear out any misunderstanding and increase trust in each other.

[Rangers]

Simple, start talking and get to the route of the problem

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'd be honest about how I feel and encourage her to do that same. Then together we can work towards a solution or at least find some common ground.

[RedInnocent69]

Acknowledge that conflict doesn’t eliminate a bond

[In_Trance]

You have conversations

[Danny_dan92]

Communication is key