Is your mental state shot for dating?

Question

Like you’re not mentally healthy to be with anyone. Mine is shot 100%

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Question well wait first of all I always like your questions

Okay question is there any sports out there that you like or do you have a favorite football team or have you ever watched like Tom Brady I'm just using this for an example any kind of sports figure that is on top

Is there ever been anything you did in life that you get a high out of it that you get in a zone and you're unstoppable

The reason why that happens is because you're 100% positive you're in that moment you believe in yourself and you never talk down to yourself you never say I can't you never give up you fight to keep going forward so every time I've read your questions and you say I'm mentally just not there not into this all you're doing is talking yourself in to something in the future in the here and now and the future

If anything say today I just don't think I'm 100% there maybe in the future I will be you know don't just keep putting yourself down for something because just because it is this way today doesn't mean it has to be that way tomorrow but it takes you to change tomorrow today if that makes sense

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm not sure how to answer that. Because I don't think so. But what I'm about to say might make you disagree.

I simply just don't see a point of trying to date anymore. Based on what I see on G@G and around the internet suggest women don't even like men anymore, if they ever did. Because anyone who claims to want a healthy, loving relationship does not expect a guy to do a little dance for her just for her amusement. A woman who claims to love a man doesn't expect him to carry the entire load and then shun him when the slightest thing he does displease her. And a woman who claims to love a man does not judge him by every bad choice she's ever made.

Everything I posted might make you feel my mental state is shot. But I say it isn't. I'm a pretty happy guy. And I want to continue being happy. So I haven't decided I'm done with dating. I'm simply not in any hurry anymore. And I'm willing to wait for a woman that actually seems like she values me coming into her life.

It sounds to me like you might to start taking much the same attitude. Just my opinion.

Minky17 · Accepted Answer

I'm mentally healthy. I just don't see the point anymore besides for procreation purposes. I don't intend to date someone I can't see myself having children/marriage for. And I don't find myself attracted to people at all lately. I can find them facially/physically appealing but then I notice the manipulative traits or they have no emotional regulation. And it repulses me.

Account · Accepted Answer

Neither mental nor emotional.

Anonymous · Answer

It was shot to find a woman to have children with again so I jumped on the hagmaxxing train a few years ago. (Infertile women due to age)

Family Court was abusive to my kids and corrupt to me when I was in my early twenties I never wanted to go through that again. Plus I figured the (government+a malicious woman) I had kids with in the future could take my property if they were so inclined the way the laws and society is and what I had already experienced. (I let it almost kill me) Both were risks I did not want to take, again.

paledreams · Answer

For me my 🧠 is fine, yet I for one am quite happy being single, because I'm comfortable with how I have coping mechanisms for my phobias - so I find that's why im happier alone so to speak - no girlfriend to "push me to face fears" - I'd rather not be in that sort of toxicity and in my moments I'm in bliss presently :) single and happy for it 🎉🥳🎉

Anonymous · Answer

You know, these modern women out there these days. They’re hiding from something. Covering for something. They say how they’re so ready for a good man and this and that, but they’re not.

Then when faced whey accountability, they reel and kick and scream “it’s all men’s fault”

No… no I don’t think it is.

Crankor · Answer

The dating world in my opinion is pretty messed up and much more superficial. I'd say there a lot of misconceptions of what dating is or means for each person that doesn't help. So with all that, perfectly understandable that there would be many with no real desire for whatever a relationship even is these days.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Even Hitler had a girlfriend.  ... that's what I tell my wife when she finds out about one of my girlfriends.

Twalli · Answer

Before I got a girlfriend, I was realistic. Part of my problems were of my own making. I also entered my relationship with the knowledge that it wasn't guaranteed to last. The fact that we're getting married is a happy accident. I have no regrets about proposing, I just didn't think I'd find my life partner on my first try.

Unit1 · Answer

Naw, I love girls. They make life sweeter.

ClassicDropout · Answer

Yes. I'm convinced I have no appealing qualities for women. It is what it is though.

exitseven · Answer

If you were really unfit to date other people you would not be aware of it.

NathanDavis · Answer

I've never had an issue with dating, so yes... it is fine

MoonFace2 · Answer

No. I’m just taking a break for a while from it.

genericname85 · Answer

No i don't think so. I'm just not motivated to try dating again, cause it's too much work for too little reward for me.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Yes, mental state and worldview. I lost everything a long time ago. My dreams, my hope, my light. Now I’m just swimming in the depths of blackness

LiamJHayden · Answer

Maybe I'm just delusional, but I think I'm fine.

TWO_EYES_119 · Answer

No I Haven't Experienced that but thought I wasn't deserving or that it wouldn't happen for me

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

DO YOU ONLY POST QUESTION ABOUT HOW NO GUY CAN WANT YOU?

Jltakk · Answer

Yes. My mental and financial health is shot for pretty much anything at all to be honest.

Dongie · Answer

Do you have to ask me?

SlightlyMental · Answer

Never had to date.

DOMINANT12 · Answer

ask yourself that.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Not at all.

kaucky1 · Answer

Nope

Tomisworthless · Answer

No lol

Adana01 · Answer

not without love...

eagle1951 · Answer

must be

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